i have two children with this man. he loves his children. the girlfriend has no child with him.
2006-08-31 07:32:39 · 40 answers · asked by dianelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Is your relationship healthy? I mean honestly? I know that mine at the current time is not. So in a way...I would be in a way relieved if my fiance would leave. I have a child with him and he loves his kid too..But..we aren't working out. The only thing I know to tell you is that if it was a good relationship then he is a dog and you don't need him. But if it was a bad relationship, look at as a way of understanding and finally finding yourself.
2006-08-31 07:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by heavensent2454 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is staying with another woman, then he is no longer your boyfriend, just the father of your children, move on, and find someone that will love you. Make sure that you take your ex boyfriend to court for child support...
2006-08-31 07:39:00 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If you two are still together let him know you do not agree on what is going on and if you two are split up and you still have feelings for him tell him it takes 50 / 50 to make 100 in a relationship. I know my boyfriend will never stay with another women kids or not
2006-08-31 07:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by baoverstreet84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is living with this girl that means he wants to be with her and not you you should move on because it will make it very hard for your children to see their father with you and the girl he's living you need to worry about when you children reach the age where they can understand whats going on and how are you going to explain this situation to them and and you need to put a stop to it because your going to make it seem that what their father is doing okay and its not think about your children and you have to think about how the situation is affecting them when you have children you need stability and the father is not a good example of that you try to find a solution to this problem and the only thing is for you to move on and find someone that loves and respects you the way you need
2006-08-31 07:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. He does have the right to stay with who he wants doesn't he? Obviously, if you can't trust him, then you are not in a very good relationship but trust is the number one thing in a relationship. Don't jump to conclusions, just wait and see what happens. It's easier to make a choice or statement about something if you understand it.
2006-08-31 07:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you then he will stay with you and your kids but if he's not then he really wont stay with you.. but for as long as he loves your kids and he respects you as their mother then i dont think there's any way you can do about the situation unless he wake up one morning and realize that it was you who he really loves the most!! and if you really want him in your life pray for it, pray for him and be nice to him, dont nag him about what he's not doing to you and to your kids instead be understanding i know it's kinda hard but if you really want him back show him some kindness and understanding.. dont show that you're depress that he's not living with you and you're kids let him know though it's hard for you inside that you can stand without him by your side.. be strong, take care of yourself show him through your actions that it's a big mistake leaving you for another woman.. and eventhough he's treating you like this show him respect and he'll distinguish the good qualities of a good wife from you.. it make take a little while for him to see everything but if you'll do this it will be hard for him not to notice you!! *wink*
2006-08-31 07:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he sleeping with her? Is he your "boyfriend" or just a friend whos a guy? these are questions that need answered before anyone can give advice. But if hes sleepin with her....hes not your boyfriend...maybe a boy toy, but thats all.
2006-08-31 07:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by t_matczak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is with another woman he is no longer ur bf. what does that mean? for the sake of ur kids u should be friends with him but nothing else. just be a good mom cause they sure dont have a good dad for him to leave and go by some one else. good luck with life
2006-08-31 07:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over. Move on. Make sure you file for child support. This is what happens when you have babies outside of marriage.
2006-08-31 07:37:16 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grab your children and run like hell towards a better life with people who really care about you!
2006-08-31 08:04:14 · answer #10 · answered by Christine H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋