I met a man last week at a work convention and I can't stop thinking about him. I have all of his contact information, should i email him even though he is married? Would it be wrong if it is a work contact?
2006-08-31 07:23:59 · 85 answers · asked by valeryarbelo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-31 13:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by XXSEXY66XX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was just a work contact, you wouldn't be posting your question here. Obviously you feel an attraction to the man, and so you are conflicted as to what to do.
If you contact him, will you just talk about work and the necessary pleasantries? If so, you don't need to worry about it as it would just be a bussiness contact..
If you contact him with the hopes of developing an emotional bond with him, It makes things complicated. Some married men feel fine carrying on a relationship on the side with another woman. This is what you would be. Someone on the side.
What is it about the man that you can't stop thinking about? Was it just a meeting or did something happen at the conference? Did he express the same feelings towards you or would you be making a fool of yourself?
I wish you luck.
2006-08-31 07:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by makawao_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what you were getting in contact with the gentleman for. If it is with the idea of creating a relationship with him and him being married and possibly having children. I would stay away from the email; you do not need to get involved with him, or to cause this kind of pain and heartache for his wife and children. If he would do this to her what makes you think that he would not do the same thing to you! Put the shoe on the other foot and if it was your husband would you want it done to you?
2006-08-31 18:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by clarkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Let it go. You'll meet other people. He's not the only great guy around. (Remember, people often act differently at these things, anyway. And if he was geeting close to you, even though married, he's probably gotten close to several others, too. I know many married men who remove their wedding bands when attending conventions....)
2006-08-31 07:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by bethiswriting 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously it's not just a work connection if you can't stop thinking about "him". Don't go there. That is the best thing for you and him and her. Not worth the heartache truly! In the long run, if he plays with you and stays married to his wife, what did you get?!
2006-08-31 07:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by flower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am going to tell you from experience, that is one thing that you don't wan't to do is mess with someone who is married. Let's switch this situation around for one moment. If you were the one married would you wan't another women getting involved with your husband? in this age people go on revenges for stupid stuff and people do get hurt over stuff like this. there are so many fishes in the sea, open your eyes and your heart and you may one day find that special person. {good things come to those who wait} good luck!
2006-08-31 07:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was his wife and knew you were emailing him i would have your throat along with his. So if you really care about him, don't do it...it will save everyone a lot of heartache and frustration. There are tons of guys out there. I know you will find the right one...try eharmony.com.. a lot of my friends have had success with it.
But seriously, don't email him. Throw away all of his info right now, that way you wont ever be tempted.
2006-08-31 07:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would be wrong and stop kidding yourself that it is a "work contact". Could you ever trust a man who carried on an affair? Do you think you could change him because things would be "different" with you? Think again.
2006-08-31 07:56:48 · answer #8 · answered by porkchop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very, very wrong. Why would you like to do that? You want him to cheat on his wife, because if you call him I am sure it will happen soon or later. Man would never make the first step if woman does not give him a reason. Stay away, he already has a woman in his life!!!
2006-08-31 07:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by twiny B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No DONT DO IT !!!!!! I am married myself and I see who and what my husband does online / cell phone etc. If this was my hubby and I seen someone was contacting him, without him telling you its ok, not only are you jepardizing his marriage, but maybe wife, kids, everyone in his life. As a wife, No offensive, but I would contact the "other woman" and she was close enough or I found her location, I would have to come whip ***!!!!!
2006-08-31 07:31:21 · answer #10 · answered by itsmerisas75 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋