Second part: who are the women you're fantasizing about? Are they real? Would you be with them if you could?
Third part: does the length of time you've been with the same partner come into play where fantasies are concerned (ie. if it is a new girlfriend, would you fantasize about another, or do you only do that when you've been with the person a long time?)
I'm asking because I want to know *truthfully* what is going through my husband's head at that moment...
2006-08-31 07:18:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Last part - when you masturbate, how often is it your WIFE you're thinking of??
2006-08-31 07:20:57 · update #1
When you have sex with your wife/long-term girlfriend, how often do you fantasize about other women?
-Maybe 1 in 50 times, if that. More just for novelty then anything.
Second part: who are the women you're fantasizing about? Are they real? Would you be with them if you could?
-Real, yes, would I be with them? no.
Third part: does the length of time you've been with the same partner come into play where fantasies are concerned
-no
As other posters said, masturbation is often to porn. If I'm not thinking in 'general' terms to the porn, I'd guess I'm thinking about my wife 60-70% of the time.
2006-08-31 08:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never fantasized about another woman while I was having sex. Why? I"M HAVING SEX! what is there to fantasize about that isn't happening right then?
When I masturbate, its usually to porn, and the arousal of that is enough....no need to to construct some fantasy world where I'm having sex with them too.
2006-08-31 07:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Bryan A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
(1)Most the time,not all the time it depends on the mood of things.
(2)Some are friends of my wife and yes if my wife gave her approval,you could probably guess how often that happens,but
she is cool with the fantasy.
(3)I had been with my wife atleast a year before she was comfortable enough to talk about our fantasies.
2006-08-31 16:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by BLINK W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok when I was married I fantasized all the time about other woman when having sex.....and the people where her sisters,neighbors and friends.....and with my girlfriend I don't fantasize at all...
2006-08-31 07:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by jeff402006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't fantasize about other women while I am having sex with my wife.
2006-08-31 07:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Polrky1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,, hmm,,, from a man's point of view,, i don't think about other women when I am with the one I am with,,,, I have other things to do,, besides think of someone else....
Not true if mastrabation is happening though,,,, it could be anyone..... usually not my Ex wife though,,, lol,,, I would rather be choking her,, and not the chicken,,,,,,
good luck
2006-08-31 07:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married ten years . I love my wife and don't fantasize about anyone while having sex. If your husband loves you he dosen't either
2006-08-31 07:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never
2006-08-31 07:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by RayRay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually never
so far no
if you want to know so bad ask him.
trick him because he wont be honest unless you lie. Tell him you want to know because you want to act out his most intiment fantacies.
2006-08-31 07:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by unkown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all the time really.. especially when i want to come.. if he is not looking in your face while he is doing you then he is definatally somewhere else.. and i am thinking about women i saw that day.. if he is not kissing you while having sex then he is somewhere else
2006-08-31 07:21:17 · answer #10 · answered by propertytaxguru 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋