ok i like sex i like cuddling and alll types of things like that some times when we are with each other i like kissing and touching and getting oral sex or giving oral sex but she does not its like when shes in the mood thats when ill get it and im always in the mood so sometimes when she wont have sex with me ill get mad and leave or wont talk to her i dont know what my problem is because shes like she has never been with no one who was like this before and shes not used to the all the attention how do stop getting angry when she wont give it to me
2006-08-31 07:04:12 · 13 answers · asked by lost in love 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
no i know thats there more to do than sex im sayin when its time one minute shes ready and 2 minutes later shes sleep wtf!
2006-08-31 10:15:04 · update #1
Hmmm.. well maybe there is a underline reason why she is not in the mood..... Maybe you are too aggressive for her and it doesn't give her a chance to seduce you.... Maybe if she thinks all you want is sex its not as fun.... I think you need to go to the toy store, get what you need... ... If she loves you and you love her you wouldn't get angry because that would be selfish.... You need to understand who she is just as bad as you want her to understand you.... If you have a really high labedo, it is not her responsibly to please you all the time... take matters into your own hands(alone). AND communicate people.... please....
2006-08-31 07:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all there is more to life than just sex. However, maybe you two are just not suited for each other. Maybe you need someone that can equal your sex drive. There is nothing wrong with that but don't belittle your girlfriend because her sex drive is not as high as yours. She is who she is and you are who you are. Sounds like you two are not suited. But dont cheat on her. Do the right thing and end things with some dignity if that's what it comes down to. If you're scared of not "getting any" I'm sure there are loads of girls who would be willing to put out for you.
2006-08-31 16:51:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a different level of sexual need. In some couples, the difference is minor. In your case, there seems to be a large gap between your respective needs.
Masturbation is probably the best answer. Pleasure yourself when your partner is not in the mood. Depending on how you feel about that, you might want to tell her you need some 'alone time' or ask her to watch or whatever. Don't make it HER fault - she is who she is, and she isn't going to change... Remember it's hard enough to change yourself; it's impossible to change someone else.
2006-08-31 15:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect her libido and you have to find each other half-way. You can't possibly expect her to fawk you whenever you want to, and she can't expect you to be celibate either. Talk to each other and find ways to meet halfway. Maybe you can be more seductive to get her in the mood, or at times why not grab a book and channel all that energy into other productive things like exercise or some other activity. You don't NEED sex all the time, you know.
2006-08-31 15:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U may wonna rethink ur relationship, she may not be feelin' u as much as u are her. Try telling her the way u feel, let her know how much she turns u on ( u know, let her think it's all about her ya dig?)...be creative ("new" places, toys, positions, etc.) Hmmm, come to think of it u just might be alittle 2 much 4 her and if that's the case...."it is wut it is ma". Bottom line is if ol' girl can't keep up, find u someone who can! Luv Life & enjoy it while u can...Dat's wus up.
Duce1 Ryder
N.Y.C.
2006-08-31 14:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual drives come in all intensities. It sounds like yours is set higher than hers. You will never be satisfied with her. Either put up with it, realizing her limitations, or find another lover. You have no other choice. Getting angry only hurts you. Don't go there.
2006-08-31 14:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your just not meant for one another. You should find someone who has a high sex drive like you do.
2006-08-31 14:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by Q~T 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just realize your getting angry only pushes her further away. Be understanding it will get you further.
Sounds like a man when you get angry.
2006-08-31 15:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tango. If she's not in the mood, find a person with a similar libido to your own.
2006-08-31 14:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't get angry! start hangin out in a bus station!! in quicker than you can think sex will come to you!!! happens to me every time!!!
2006-08-31 14:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋