Okay 9 months ago i split up from a 8 1/2 year relationship, it was abusive emotionally and physically. Come to find out he has met this girl....The thing is I don't think he has suffered the pain that I have suffered and always will. Any good ideas of how to make him pay?
2006-08-31 06:32:35 · 15 answers · asked by redsoxgal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also note i have moved on and met a great guy the thing is the ex has no idea......he has blocked me out.. We had a lot invested we lived together for 3 years and i have found a lot of his items but just ignores me.
2006-08-31 06:46:15 · update #1
live a great life! that's the best revenge!
2006-08-31 06:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by jeanne g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge for someone like this is for you to move on with your life, and to show them that you do not need them, and that you can be a better person without them. If you do something back to him, you will just be sinking down to his level, and in the end, you will be just like him. Be the bigger person, and don't let him keep on hurting you. If you are still dwelling on him, then he is still abusing you emotionally, and you need to not allow him to do that. Just put him in the past, learn to love and trust again, and remember that there are better people out there and not everyone is like him..
good Luck
2006-08-31 13:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nine months later and you are still letting him get to you. Why are you donig this to yourself? Any pain you are suffering is probably the result of your grieving over him. Stop wallowing in any of the crap he left you with. I am not saying this to be mean or to hurt you. I have been there. But as long as you worry about what to do "to" him, he is not loosing any sleep over you. He has moved on, for your own sake you should too. He didn't love you, so what, he was a loser. Like you would any pile of crap, step over him. LOVE YOURSELF! It will make all the difference in the world.
2006-08-31 13:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by cricket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get back at him...is to move on with your life and let it go...it's not worth all the pain and bull****. Get on with your life and forget all about him. Everytime you start to think about him, change what you are thinking about. Go out and get yourself a rebound guy, just someone to have fun with, but nothing serious. Let it go, you guys split for a reason.
2006-08-31 13:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can always hit him where it hurts type out a letter with a fake letter head tellin him he has AIDS and send it to her address informing her that she needs to get tested ...or mess with his vehicle like put alot of those bouncing balls in the gas tank so when he comes to a complete stop n takes off his car dies n he spends alot of money tryin to figure out what the problem is..or put chemicals on his grass spellin out words so when the grass comes back in next spring its dead in those areas..or leave notes on his car that he is messing with ur girlfriend and ur gonna kick his a.s.s so he breaks up with her bc he thinks she is dating someone else too... oh ya u could put alot of construction tacks in his yard and under his tires so he gets flats and also maybe steps on a few..i mean all over his yard but make sure there is no kids around.. i got lots of em put start with these first
2006-08-31 13:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another man that you're happy with and show that useless loser how great your life is without him. It's the best kind of payback.
2006-08-31 13:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger only hurts you.
Because the person you are angry with either doesn't know or doesn't care.
So, you are the only one suffering.
Try, and it's difficult, but keep trying to move on.
Remember this saying:
What goes around, comes around.
2006-08-31 13:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by Stargatebabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pour car oil all over his car. or the girls car...and leave a trail from the front door to the car. They'll slip for sure and it will be hard to clean the oil off the car. TRUST ME!!!
2006-08-31 13:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could put bologna on his car on a hot day. It would leave bologna shaped discolorations all over his car.
2006-09-01 14:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by sexystud32111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Life finds its own justice.
2006-08-31 13:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋