Alright I have a kinda of familiar yet weird question to ask...?

Question

Ok first of all let me start by saying that I am 19 years old, graduated high school last year, and havent really done anything since, had a few jobs but that never went anywhere, I did go to college for a month but got uninterested because I had no clue what to do at all....That is basically my question I dont know what to do with my life at all, I mean I have no ambition to do anything...I need some really good advice and help from someone who knows what I should at least start out doing, I mean I know I need to get a job, but I live in this smaller town and starting to hate it here, I have 1 good friend who is my age but married so we dont get to hang out like usual friends my age, I have no boyfriend and doesnt seem like i am getting anywhere in life, i feel empty and lost with what I should do...I have recently been thinking about moving to somewhere else, but see the money and not knowing anyone is my problems...So if anyone could help me with my problem, please do.....

Answer 1

what about teaching english over sea? if you're not in it for the money and want to teach kids plus travel to another country. what do you think?

Answer 2

I have been in in the same situation in the past. Did you have any interests in high school that could lead into a rewarding career. I have found that just finding a job to work for awile helps. It will let you think about what you want to do and also find out what you are able to do. If needed you should just find a job in another city or state to change things up then you wont feel like you are in a rut. I worked a lot of diferent odd jobs from cleaning a bouncing at bars to working in a factory for long hours and little money and personal time with friends and family But after all that I was able to find the career I wast to go in to and I am back in collage on my last semester. I hope this is helpfull for you and if you want to chat more on this subject just drop me a line at df1469@yahoo

Answer 3

First of all ,ask urself what u really want from life.u could also discuss ur problem with ur family,4 they r the ones who really care 4 u.u might also form hobbies like readin, watchin gud movies,listening music and so on.try makin new frens ,share ur joys and sorrows with them.Personally i think college is a good option 4 u.Take up those subjects which u find interesting, and try to focus ur attention on ur studies.A gud education wud surely give u a secure future and make ur life more meaningful.dont worry abt gettin a boyfriend ,u have a long life ahead of u,and will surely get the one who's been made 4 u sum day.

Answer 4

Hi sounds like you are depresed as hay is some of the symptoms of it and it does need help 2. do you have any hobbie or interests 3. what things do you like to do or have fun with 4 is there something you like to do but a lot of people dont , ie many people dont like to clean house if you do you could clean theirs for a fee or you could run errands for the elderly or infirm 5 if you want a friend be one first 6. find out what people need and give it to them some people need their yards done pets walked babies watched elderly parents cared for buisnesses could use windows washed offices cleaned just be creative and you can find something to do and you will have lots f friends of all ages help others with their problems an you will be surprised how quickly yours dissapear hope this helps best wishes gorbalizer

Answer 5

I can sympathize. I'm 21 and a couple of years ago I was in the same boat as you. Go to college and just take some classes, find out what interests you and what you're good at. Plus you can always transfer to a university in a couple of years and that will get you out of the small town. Plus if you're in college and getting good grades it will help you get schalorship or a loan. Good luck! Don't give up!

Answer 6

Honey, I'm 26, have an M.A. and still don't know what I want to do!

But that doesn't help. I think you should start researching different careers: check out the internet: http://www.bls.gov/oco/home.htm
Talk to your parents' friends.
I'm not so sure you should go back to school until you have a better idea of what you want to do. You'll waste a lot of time and money that way.

Answer 7

Make a list of your interest or hobbies. Think about what you want to accomplish. Make money, help people, live an interesting life, etc. When you figure out what you want to do get some education in that field.

I always thought it would be fun to work on a cruse ship if I wasn't married.

Answer 8

you should definetely at least go back to college i'm the same age as you and i just started my 2nd year of college...no i don't particularly like to sit there and listen to lectures but it will be worth it when i'm done...you dont have to know exactly what you're gonna do for the rest of your life but college is a good way to get started it can open you up to so many different things

Answer 9

Well, there has to be some ambition there. What are your desires? What do you want out of your life? There is not a person in this world without desires. You just have to find out what it is you want and go for it.

Answer 10

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