My boyfriend keeps on at me to do anal, in fact it was the first thing he said wen he woke up this morning. I have let him play with it and we have tried, but it is agony. It is not a good idea to do it wen drunk or asleep as you need to feel the pain to know when to stop. If you force your penis up there and it is not relaxed enough then it can cause internal tearing which is serious and could mean surgery.
If you want to talk her round then suggest her doing it to you. You will enjoy it but it will also show her your commitment. Also try a finger when you are having a good session and see how she reacts. If she tells you to f*** off then you know to avoid the subject but if she seems to enjoy it then there could be hope for the future.
Whatever you do take it slowly, you don't want an unnecessary trip to casualty!
2006-08-31 07:14:04
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answered by Emma-Kate 3
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Well its not so nice for us girls, unlike gay men who have the prostate there for orgasmic fun, we dont !!
HOWEVER !!!-- Try poppers, it helps with the dilation, and we (i)) can take a good deep pounding - hurts a little the next day-but not as much as it used to. Plenty of lube, and it helps if it happens at the end of a session-more relaxed and sleepy. Good luck but DONT FORCE HER .
2006-08-31 05:45:24
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answered by sandi smith 3
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You should respect her wishes, if you genuinely love her and don't see her as a sex toy, you'll have to forego that particular pleasure. If that's a joke then try harder.
2006-08-31 05:42:18
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answered by Dan 4
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honestly you shouldnt try and persuade her...anal sex does not feel good for girls at all, it hurts its uncomfortable and you cant **** for days and it has alot of problems, it makes your *** burn for a couple days... my bf talked me into it and hell never talk me into it again...i got sick to my stomach and i was mirerable...trust me you dont want to put her threw that...
2006-08-31 06:25:34
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answered by courtney k 2
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how vile you are. she's obviously not interested so leave it or find yourself someone who'll put up with you sharing their sex life on the internet.
2006-09-01 01:44:31
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answered by Anonymous
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as she has said no you should respect her wishes, would you want her to keep on at you do do something you really did not want to do? no i don't suppose you would FORGET IT
2006-09-02 02:30:08
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answered by bluebell 4
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if you love her you will Honor her decision!you can not force a person to do something they don't wish to do!
2006-09-02 02:12:24
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answered by victoria k 2
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whens shes ready and she loves you shell let you know. respect her. she has to be comfortable.
2006-09-03 15:52:52
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answered by sweetlola_angel 1
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Tell her you`ll go somewhere else for it.
2006-08-31 05:41:27
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answered by Anonymous
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if she doesnt want to do it u should totally respect her and forget it!
2006-08-31 05:40:09
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answered by princessnicola23 3
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