I thought i had friends but when i needed someone no one answered their phone called me back nor mailed me back why is that? When i have a car and money all want to hang out but when that is gone no one is to be found?
2006-08-31 05:08:44 · 18 answers · asked by Precious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well that's life. there are people like that every where you need to find people that are there for you when you are down and someone who deserves to be called friend so good luck by finding them. i have 1 friends and i treasure them soo much i thank them for being there for me all the time trust me. I been where you are at and it is not a nice place.
2006-08-31 07:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry to hear you aren't getting the proper support from your freinds...well, so called freinds! You always know your true freinds, when they are there, when you need them the most. I felt the same way many times. I am a nice person and I always am there for the ones who need me, but I get so let down when I need them, and they aren't there for me either. It's tough really. I get so depressed about they way people aren't there for me! Unfortunately, you can't change other people and you have seen their true colors. True freinds are very hard to find, and you'll know when you find them...hang on to them! I've found out throughout my life, my family are the ones who seem to care the most and seem to be there every time! Stop taking them in your car and spending your money on them...don't let people take advantage! I was always emailing my friends, over and over again, and I never get replies....I get so frustrated...so I stopped, and I feel much better now. Don't waste time on people who don't care! I hope this helps!
2006-08-31 12:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by chillpillak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to know no one was there for you. Its time to spend time on why there was no one for you. You had the tools for fun (car and money) and lacked tools to win a friend. The people around you wanted fun it is evident by their behavior. And you saw things differently, you entertained them with your money but in return wanted them to be your friends. You can buy many things with money but not friends. To win a friend you have to be a friend, and to be a friend one does not need money or car!
What can you learn best from this experience....every pain comes with a pack of wisdom. Can you give up everything that is happening in your life and stand by your friend when they need you? If you have made changes within to be a good friend remember you can make the other understand what a good friend can be by being a friend. To get something first we have to give.
2006-08-31 12:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl when reality sets in there is really now true friends. I have learned the hard way about that so now I stick to myself. I have always been the friend to help out be there for, understand, lend, baby sit ..all that. When I really need someone to be there there was noone. At the time I didnt realize because everything was going right for me. The one time things were a mess there was noone there. They say never do something for someone and expect something in return. I did always look at it that way. Now I look at it like only keep people in your life that you know if need they have. Its sad to say but I will NEVER go in my poket for any one again. I refuse to help out people any more. People are so ungrateful it is a shame. The greatest thing Is now I KNOW. And its never to late to learn. Good luck
2006-08-31 12:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by Robyn D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are rude and don't realize that true friendship isn't only about what your friends can offer you materialistically. You need to step back and look at your circle of friends. If they are only around long enough for you to take them places, hang out with and use you for what you have- they are not true friends.
2006-08-31 12:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know that people might tell you to dump ur "friends" but i also know that can't be too easy for you to do. easier said than done, trust me. if its not a huge deal for you, then go for it. but coming from someone who can totally relate, i think people who say they are your friends sometimes stick with you because they need someone to help them also. they're around because they know that you'll help them out. but when alls good by them, they have no use for you and that can get frustrating to deal with. try telling your friends how you feel and if they seem to have absolutely no interest whatsoever, then you'd be making the right choice by finding some new people to hang out with.
Good luck!!
2006-08-31 12:46:34 · answer #6 · answered by jgmice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know sometimes the 1 get in a problem he were think that he have some friends they will be his back up but he dont find them in the problem :( and that mean that they aren't his real frineds , so its so hard for any 1 to find a real friend.so GOOD LUCK for all ppl to find some real or true friends
2006-08-31 12:31:02 · answer #7 · answered by 23_duaa_07 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because God wants you to rely on Him and nobody else. Quit looking to people for your source of encouragement and the ones to be there for you, because humans let you down. There is only one who will be there no matter what and He is waiting for you to talk to Him and to listen.
2006-08-31 12:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by really???? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats life I thought i had a friend too but he was always too drunk to be any good to anybody .. sorry but thats the way it is
2006-08-31 12:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by smitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they are only good time friends. you really need to find atrue friend that is there for you when the going gets rough. dump those other losers, you are way better than they are...
2006-08-31 12:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋