2006-08-31 05:07:21 · 16 answers · asked by Suzie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My abortion brought on depression. I had huge regrets, and it caused me to not want to live anymore. I felt horrible, and I cried everyday. However, I have 3 kids now, and I know that I can never change that moment. I chose to stay awake during the procedure, because I wanted to remember that for the rest of my life, and I will. I will always remember the day that I was grown enough to have sex, but not grown enough to accept the responsibility, I was 16 years old.
2006-08-31 05:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
i found out that my mother had abortion when i was two. My father got my mum checked at the hospital and the doctors said it was a girl. My dad forced my mum into abortion and he also said that if i knew harleena (thats me) was a girl i would of made you have an abortion. Thats what happened. I would of had a sister. and when i ask my mum was it really a miscarraige she says yes. I know it was an abortion because of the files. In most asian countries they want their unborn child 2 be a boy. Then when i was 8 my brother was born. and when i was 11 my other brother was born. So basicly i was a loner and a loser. My mum really regrets it and still crys to my nan. IF U R PREGNANT I BEG U DONT HAVE AN ABORTION. IF YOU REALLY DONT WANT THE BABY GIVE IT 2 ADOPTION BUT DONT KILL IT
2006-08-31 13:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by HKJ_zizou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In High School I had 2 friends that both became pregnant within a short period of time, One had the baby, and the other an abortion.
What I know is that the friend that had the baby didnt finish school became depressed, felt like she missed out on so much, and her own childhood really although she loved her baby, she felt alone.
The other friend had the abortion, never regreted it and finished High schoo, continued on with college and is now very successful and had her family when she was ready, and could provide for her children the way she wanted to.
Personally, I think that they each should of kept their legs shut or used protection, and they wouldnt of been put in that situation.
2006-08-31 13:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Why? ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally, have never had one, but I don't believe abortion to be an option in most instances. I think that the only "real" reason to have an abortion is due to rape or the mother's life being threatened due to giving birth. Everyone has their own opinion and has to make their own choice, but really think it through if you are considering one yourself. The little being inside you has life as soon as conceived. It doesn't matter whether it is two hours or two months into the pregnancy. The "thing" inside you is a child, a person. A person who should be given the opportunity to live. You created this person(you and your partner) and if you can't or don't want to care for him/her, then you could always give the child up for adoption. It all comes down to one thing for me... every time I look in my 4 month old boys big beautiful blue eyes, and he smiles at me, I know my life will never be the same as before - and I wouldn't want it to be.
2006-08-31 12:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by CB 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was 4 months pregnant with my daughter I found out that she might have down syndrom or turner syndrom. I had a test done and found out that I had a normal healthy female fetus. I thanked god for that. I am totally against abortion for most situations. If you went out and had unprotected sex and now you don't want the little mirical you created then shame on you. I thought about abortion when I found out my daughter might have downs. Now that she is her with me today I thank god every second of everyday that I wasn't selfish and take her life away from her.
If you dont' think you can care for a child and that is why you are considering abortion think about all the great people who want kids and can't have them. Give your child up for adoption it is the next best thing you can do. Try not to take a life of a inicent little mirical.
2006-08-31 12:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by babykins1025 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Listen people will do as they please, I for one am against abortion,always have been and always will be. I do consider it to be a sin. Children are a gift from god. Children are not supose to be planned on a schedule of when to enter the world. We play the hands we are given, as we accept the gifts we are given.
I don't look down apon ones who have had an abortion, that is your choice and we as americans have that freedom. I am not going to say i think it should be a crime because that is a women body and we(my sweetheart along with all the United States Soldiers) went and are currently at war fighting for that very freedom. Just my opinion
Jenn
2006-08-31 12:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by Army Love 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A baby is a baby at conception it has all it's DNA and everything
when your baby is 3 weeks old it is a boy or girl, it's heart is already beating, it has the beginning of eyes, spinal cord, brain, nervous system, lungs, kidneys and intestines. and the baby is starting to get arms.
If you feel bad about abortion or just want to talk to someone outside your circle call 1 800 848 5683 this is a national pregnancy hot line - they can hook you up with a Pregnancy Resource Center near you - they have counselors trained in post abortion stress syndrome counseling - if you are having problems please call now.
2006-08-31 12:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would be sorry if i had ever had one. of couyrse, since i am against abortion, i wouldnt have 2 in the first place. my stepmom had cancer, and she was pregnant w/ my older step-brother. the doctors trold her 2 abort him bcuz he would most likely have mental or physical disabilities, and she refused. she had him, and he didnt have any disabilities. so no matter what, i would never get an abortion. and i am in agreement very much w/ jenn.
2006-08-31 12:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by clueless 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It has made my life continue on as it was. I am able to finish my college career and start a good job without having to put my life on hold to raise an un-planned child whom I was not ready to bring into this world and support. Right now I struggle to take care of myself between work and schooI. It would not have been fair to bring a child into this world if I could not have given them my all. I am not sorry whatsoever. I had my abortion at 5 weeks. There was nothing developed as of then except a mass of blood and tissue which far from being a developed human being. I wish people would do thier research before accusing woman who have chosen abortion of being murderers.
2006-08-31 12:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by J. P 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
even at 5 weeks...it is a life...not a blob of blood and tissue. if you can't raise it...be stong enough to give it up for adoption...what a loving thing to do!
Abortion is killing a baby...no scientist or doctor will tell you it isn't...they know...they just want your money...
2006-08-31 13:50:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋