What are the chances of becoming pregnant from outercourse w/o ejaculation?

Question

I tried outercourse last week for the first time. My boyfriend didn't ejaculate, but I know that there is precum and so I am worried about the chances of pregnancy. We tried to keep the penis away from the vaginal opening, but it touched the area a few times. Of course since i am worried I am noticing things like a few shooting pains in my left breast, but I am probably just being over paranoid. It was a week after i got my period so i will have to wait a few weeks for my next period so its a killer to just sit and wait. Should I be worried? What are the earliest signs of pregnancy?

Answer 1

Didnt Your Momma tell you NOT to Play with Guns?

Sounds Like your NOT ready to be playing around like this ..... Be wary that you will be furthered pressured by this BF to go farther the Next time.... and may even try to slip it in .. and you Not wanting to hurt his feelings will probably NOT be able to say NO..... so Please for YOUR SAKE .... Make sure that he Uses a Condemn. You being young like you are will Still Think ... OMG what if it Broke? .... Well there still is a slim Chance that it did.... So If you want To Be worry Free....... Do NOT go there Until you Are Ready but If you abslolutey Must .....Use a Condem and be 99% sure that your not pregnant..... BTW Condemns are your best choice for protection as there ARE a lot of Worse things out there than getting pregnant.
You be Careful sweetie ........ I KNOW too many Horror stories from People Just Like you. Remember its YOUR Body .. you take care of it. If he REALLY Loves you he Will Respect your wishes and either Abstain or Use protection.

Answer 2

Even with the penis inside you, if he's urinated since he last ejaculated, there are no sperm in the pre-come. He should be able to stay up to 45 minutes if he is aware, but you guys might be drinking or something, and on the other hand, over several occasions he will get to where he won't want to wait - even if he thinks he wants to wait. And then, even though he doesn't come and get the full benefit, one of those waves of pleasure will be just a little different and he will ignore that he has just inseminated his pre-come. What had been a good lubricant for you has just turned into baby batter, and if he doesn't bail right away, it will run right down. He will eventually ignore it and lose that lead time - it's there but he will squander it. Not willingly, it's just that our penis twists our arm and everything else! So if you were doing "outside" activity, you should be safe unless he's flushing onto your lips (p I mean).
If you get his lube in you for your spontaneous pleasure, he will eventually lose his skills if you do it too often - and he might not even be able to feel the difference anyway. Many men ejaculate right away when they begin to orgasm. Discipline can get ten good minutes out of an orgasm. That d word is a big one! From what it sounds like, where you are is you should be learning to "inhale" or to "drink", shall we say? Then work on keeping things standing, for your benefit, after taking the fire out of the fuel. And then, that's the best way to train him to go longer without - or before - the ejaculation. (Yes, sometimes the occasion has to end without - and without knowing which times - to learn it well) But after a couple long b-j's without it at the end and the next he's able to handle an orgasm without it for several minutes, then you can really fix him - ahem - and he will not only know new joy, but have more skill for you.
It sounds like you are in need of spontaneous, natural methods like this (spontaneous after the prep, of course) instead of condoms, etc. because they may not be there when you need them.

Answer 3

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What are the chances of becoming pregnant from outercourse w/o ejaculation?
I tried outercourse last week for the first time. My boyfriend didn't ejaculate, but I know that there is precum and so I am worried about the chances of pregnancy. We tried to keep the penis away from the vaginal opening, but it touched the area a few times. Of course since i am worried I...

Answer 4

Think your'e chances are very slim......I wouldnt worry too much...the worrying will delay your period and you'll be stressed even more! You are playing with fire and should think about birth control.....can you talk to your parents..? Im unsure of hold old you are but PLEASE be carefull.... unwanted pregnancies are soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo unneccasary nowadays.... cant your boyfriend go and buy some condoms? Earliest sign of pregnancy is of course a missed period..... feeling very, very tired all the time especially evenings....... morning sickness, a metalic taste in your mouth. I think it's highly unlikely that your'e pregnant.... sort out this problem before it really is a problem for you... good luck and god bless.....

Answer 5

There is always a chance, but you are probably fine. Bottom line here ---> USE CONDOMS!!!!!!!!!! You can still get a disease - don't be foolish about this stuff. A guy will say anything (like I am a virgin too) to get some - they aren't bad people - just have an agenda that is fueled by serious hormones. BE SAFE and you will never have to worry. CONDOMS CONDOMS CONDOMS! Teach yourself how to put them on a guy so that you know it's done correctly... you don't want it to break. Be in control of your own sexuality - do not leave it up to a hormone crazed guy.

Answer 6

I can honestly say that my husband and I can thank the precum for giving us our baby boy. No lie. So yes it is possible and never ever play with a penis unless it is bagged ( with spermicide) and you are on some sort of birth control. Nothing is 100% except abstain. So sorry to make your worries worse but the possibility is there. Early signs of pregnancy are fatigue, tender breasts, and spotting not like your normal period. Any variation from your normal period is a sure sign.

Good luck and if you aren't take this as a Big lessoned learned.
Protect yourself from pregnancy and STD's

Answer 7

Girl, I had intercourse with my boyfreind...the day or two after I ended my period. I was licking him before he stuck it in me, and I noticed some pre-*** from licking him, and I kind of snapped the penis back (not in a way that would hurt or anything). And my vagina was right below, and I was afraid that some of the pre-*** would get into my vagina...but the truth is that everything really is ok. Even with my story I shouldn't be worried, and either should you. You won't be pregnant. You really shouldn't worry. If you want to prevent any possible pregnancy for next time, you can get some spermacidal lubricant and rub it all over his penis and your vagina next time you mess around. Spremicidal lubricant kills sperm on contact, but still be careful. Don't have him *** inside of you only with spermicidal lubricant, by any means, its not meant for that many sperm, its only meant for a little extra protection.

Answer 8

Don't worry, it's very rare. But if you are so worried about getting pregnant why are you having close to sex? Could it be you are too young to be doing these things? If you are an adult.. Use PROTECTION! You can still get STDs with this form of sex.
Signs of pregnancy: nausia, wieght loss/gain, lathargy (feeling sleepy all day), back pain, and pain in your breast is the least likely symptom, stimulation itself can cause pain, but some women do produce milk early especially if they have been pregnant before.

Answer 9

Chances are in a situation like that, that there is nothing to be worried about. Precum can be just as effective as the actual ejaculation, but as you said, he wasn't really that close to your "special area," in which I am referring to your cervix, not just your vaginal hole. Pains in your breasts can simply mean the onset or after pains of your period. Moodiness that soon after your period is also common, so I feel it would be safe to say that you do not have anything to be worried about. So rest easy and try to be a little safer next time if it worries you this much now.

Answer 10

This is my opinion: A woman has a period of time for her to get pregnant, some has 5 days some only hours and some always even when they are in her period, if you don't know how to listen to your body you better start it. So if you are not in that period a drop or a whole bucket wont get you pregnant. What is outer-course, can i find the definition in a dictionary? Deal or not deal...