I mean making love to only one person (wife) alone all time can be bore. what is a way out for a married man.? having affair outstide ???
2006-08-31 04:38:17 · 12 answers · asked by openup 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Marriage is no picnic and it takes TWO to make a relationship work. So you think you should get an affair because you are bored making love to your wife? how sad? havent you think that maybe you are the problem? what if she feels the same and is thinking on having an affair with a younger boy? would you like that?
I think you need to work on your relationship, cook her some dinner, light up candles, by her something sexy to wear for you, maybe some toys, oils, take a trip away together to a romantic place, you just need to spice it up a bit, get some time alone, dont ruin your marriage before even trying to work things out.
2006-08-31 04:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excatly, fantasy, use your mind, try new things, watch XXX movies together thats what my wife and I do and seems to work great, try turning off the lights, complete darkness, that can be a real turn on! We are thinking about getting one of those liberator sex chairs, around $200 but might spice things up even more.
My friiend at our wedding told me that it all feels the same, man or woman and the only excitment in ones mind comes from being with someone else, pretty stupid IMO to risk ruining a relationship over somthing that you can controll with your mind!
2006-08-31 11:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by robertssp2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
toys, raunchy movies, dressing up, trying new positions (there're so many books out there w/ new positions and techniques), try making love at different times of the day (morning instead of night), different places (kitchen floor, over the kitchen counter, in the shower). Talk about your fantasies, try some role play, get kinky with props- blindfolds, spanking, etc (of course, all within your comfort zone)
You can try an affair if you are really into divorce, paying alimony and STDs. Those are very exciting.
2006-08-31 12:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having an affair outside of the marriage???? hmmm.... sounds like a way out to me ... A WAY OUT OF THE MARRIAGE AND INTO DIVORCE. Is she pregnant too??? cuz I'm not sure how this is a 'pregnancy' related question? If she is pregnant & you are contemplating this then you are very insensitive & could definitely use some counseling on how to be a better partner. Maybe she is bored with YOU.
2006-08-31 12:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by princess4castle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's gotten that bad, it's time to try new positions. Talk and see what she'll agree with. If you're honest and let her know you don't want to cheat, but it comes across your mind, then she'll probably agree to some of the backdoor - would that keep your interest? Why not try peaking her interest by kissing her in new places - get over your reluctance. And she might do the same for you then, so keeping that in mind might make it a little easier to swallow. Above all, be creative and caring.
2006-08-31 11:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW LONG YOU GUYS BEEN MARRIED MUST BE VERY LONG THAT YOURE BORED WE'VE BEEN MARRIED FOR 11 YEARS AND HE i have no complains we dont do it everyday like before with no kids but its kind hard becuz of the kids.i guess give it some time try different position or adult xxx movies.But dont have an affair you wouldn't definitely regret it.
2006-08-31 11:47:10 · answer #6 · answered by thickmadame 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to your wife about your feelings. Implement role plays or use toys to enhance love making. Do not cheat on her until all sauces have been explored. She might feel the same. Good luck my friend.
2006-08-31 11:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To avoid boredom, go back to school and learn to spell. Maybe your wife will have more respect for you, and be more turned on by you, if you where literate. Women like smart men.
2006-08-31 12:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by mslorikoch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fantasy! use your mind. try talking to your wife about trying new things. read some sex books. whatever you do, don't have an affair. you don't know what you'll be losing once you've lost it.
2006-08-31 11:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by bizarrorigo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your wife is bored having sex with you ?? Ask her what to do to spice up your sex life.
2006-08-31 11:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by southernn_sky_2020 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋