She complains that we never build anything, and I tell her the first step starts with holding down a job for more then one month. She disagrees but I know whats right. How to I explain to her that if she wants anything in this life she has to work for it, and you cant work if you are changing your job every month.
2006-08-31 04:34:43 · 10 answers · asked by Joe Bob Charlie, Joe Bob Chopper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her the importance and then
2006-09-01 08:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
promote your automobiles, your position, and enable your spouse be with the youngsters. Being a housewife and mom is a large pastime itself. She probably did not favor to paintings in a occupation in the first position. She probably did your organisation with you to be round you. She probably theory being a stay at domicile changed into stunning once you probably did not have a organisation that she worked with you. She probably needs to preserve you, domicile, and the youngsters. She feels like a keeper. Why provide that up? simple answer: Redo your funds, stay under your skill and make it more beneficial healthful with your earnings. funds isn't worth a wedding ceremony. Divorce isn't the answer the following. communicate about your concerns mutually with her in a relaxed tone. Make a plan to the position she does not ought to paintings. perhaps if she ought to paintings some years to pay off costs with being an finished time mom and housewife in concepts... attempt this and also you'll have a quite chuffed existence. Am I being harsh? Yup.
2016-11-23 16:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by egbe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be the males responsibility to hold down the long term job to provide for the family. Help her out and let her start part-time and work up. If you have kids it may all be too much for her. Give a little!
2006-08-31 04:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by jpet 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she really needs to grow up. Do you possibly have friends that can help you get this through her head? Nothing in life is free. Maybe if you tell her you aren't going to support her anymore she may grow up a bit.
2006-08-31 04:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she needs to grow up and realise that she can't get anything stable if she doesn't have a stable job...
no bank is going to give her anything if they see she can't stay more than 1 month at a job... stability is the key...
2006-08-31 04:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt want to work...so think of other options and quit putting the missus up for things she doesnt want to do. If you want a career minded person....get a divorce.
2006-08-31 04:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Scully 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't explain this to someone who doesn't already understand it. If you want a wife who is a responsible adult, get a new wife.
2006-08-31 04:41:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you say you are now living in Spain and she says she is now Asian, maybe she will have to take Spanish lessons in order to have steady employment there.
2006-08-31 07:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by Annie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cut her off form your bank account, have her open one on her own she can fill up. Give her a small allownace until she starts to work.
2006-08-31 04:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by roman_ninja 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well get off yo a$$ and get a JOB
2006-08-31 04:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋