My fiance and I are having issues with where to live after we get married. We live 30 minutes away from each other and can't pick whether to get a new place or just stay where he's staying now. Any advice ?????
2006-08-31 04:34:13 · 11 answers · asked by Phyllis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If I were you, and it wouldn't be a finacial burden, I'd want to get a new place and start fresh.
2006-08-31 04:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when a couple decides to get married, they would
move into a new place and start afresh in life. However, in
your case, both of you need not shift out to a new place. It
depends on who is working and earning big salary. If it's you,
then your husband-to-be should move into your place after
marriage.
2006-08-31 04:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by steplow33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to the two of you, and it depends on your living situation. Are you renting? Is he? Does he live in a place that's big enough for two? Are there any practical advantages to either living where he does now, or moving to a different place? (Liking the area, distance to work, rent/mortgage amount.) When I met my husband-to-be, I lived in a small quaint 1-bedroom apartment, and he owned a 4-bedroom house. That was a no-brainer, wasn't it. (We live in his house now - although we're planning to move before we have kids.)
2006-08-31 04:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if neither of you can decide on where to live.. maybe you should pick up a new place...
I think that both of you have issues about leaving your own place/comfort zone... you need to seriously sit down and talk about it and see why it's such a big deal.. that neither of you want to leave their own place...
2006-08-31 04:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New Place = More fun. What better way to start a new life together than to get a new place? It is also a great way to compromise too.
Congratulations!!!
2006-08-31 04:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends upon the situation in which you are going to marry someone but it is not necessary move elswhere only to start new life.
2006-09-04 02:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the initiating... wow! that's extremely plenty to soak up. It certainly sounds such as you want a replace. yet in the initiating end telling human beings your issues! i recognize this can sound harsh yet by using doing that you're in simple terms making your self liable to them, which later oftentimes finally ends up biting you in the butt. each body is fickle and in no way straightforward so until eventually you eventually end up an excellent chum keep your mouth close. Now on to the different themes. you've a son, he's your huge variety one situation from the day he changed into born to the day you die. You extra him into this international so he's your duty. Now i recognize you recognize this and Im not attempting to assert that you're a foul mom in any respect. Im sensible you're superb. yet going to Thailand with a collection of acquaintances once you've a toddler and no pastime isn't the neatest difficulty to do. fairly because you most likely left him with your loopy mom who used to abuse you. not the most excellent placing on your turning out to be son. My ideal suggestion to you is to hit upon a job. when you've performed that search for an section to stay except your moms and dads. no matter if it calls for you to have a room mate. discover the most inexpensive position conceivable and keep each little bit you may. to this point as acquaintances and your mom is going. at times you ought to be lonely. It sucks yet Ive been there. No acquaintances, no one to confer with, to talk in self assurance to. Its the worst conceivable position to be. you sense such as you're going to blow up. initiate protecting a mag it facilitates and could take lots of the part off of each of the drama that surrounds you. and end searching for peace on your existence. concentration on fixing each thing you dont like and peace and happiness will come. good success
2016-11-23 16:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by egbe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you renting ? do you own ? who has the cheaper place?Is it large enough for you both?How bout a place half way between ?
2006-09-04 02:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, move to a new place! so you can have some privacy of your own and can make your own decisions. (don't ever live with your in-laws....)
2006-09-03 21:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by yambehler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET A KNEW PLACE AND A KNEW START. IT WILL FILL BETTER FOR THE THE OF YOU. CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR MARRIAGE
2006-08-31 04:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by mipieta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋