ie. the bank teller, supermarkert cashier, fastfood joint attendance, co-worker etc that alway make eyes at you. and in fact they are so pretty
2006-08-31 04:28:33 · 19 answers · asked by openup 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You should be committed to your wife. If you aren't then you have the problem. When you look at another woman and lust after her you are doing your wife an injustice. Think about how you would resist them if she were standing beside you. Be careful because this is how affairs start. Fantasy can get you in trouble. BE CAREFUL and love your wife.
2006-08-31 04:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I see what you mean. I catch myself looking every now and then, but I am completely in love with my husband who is very attractive himself, and I just keep in mind that the perfect strangers making eyes at you are nothing compared to your spouse. I would not give my husband up for the world, yet sometimes especially if you're recently married, or recently dating, you forget for a minute. Usually if I catch myself noticing a cute guy, I stop right away and ignore the person trying to flirt with me.
accidently Looking once then turning away is one thing, looking twice is adultry. you just have to get used to not interacting with the pretty girls for awhile until you can handle yourself.
Most importantly try to stay open and honest in your relationship. work through your problem together. Loosing the person who should be the love of your life is not worth meaningles one night stands and affairs.
2006-09-03 13:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by janiewq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does a married woman escape the temptation of dating the young and hunky guys around- the new intern at work, the pool boy, the gym instructor?
It's called self-control, respect for your spouse and love. If you think you're bored, try spicing up your sex life w/ toys, porn, role play whatever floats your boat, go away for a weekend, dress up nicely and go for a dinner, etc
And for the record, all the supermarket cashiers and girls who work at fast food places I know are very fat and ugly.
2006-08-31 05:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should see if there's something wrong with your marriage and try to find a solution for that. You promised to your wife you will love her forever and be faithful to her. Isn't she a beautiful lady? weren't you in love when you married her?
Please dont make anything stupid that you will regret later...is the cute cashier going to offer you all the support, love, or is going to be faithful as your wife is? If you dont love her anymore then you should divorce, but dont make her suffer, she hasn't done anything wrong to you, dont be so selfish and cause her any pain.
2006-08-31 04:41:18 · answer #4 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called self-control, taking personal responsibility & realizing the consequences of your actions (on yourself & the ripple effect on family & friends) and having morals and scruples.
If you are really having that hard a time with this, you should seek counseling. Better to get help now than after you have acted on some bad impulse - and are in hot water. Please save yourself & those you care about the agony later.
2006-08-31 04:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by mustanglynnie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. Get an emotional connection with the woman you're already committed to. Work through your emotional issues that make you seek outside companionship. Try any book by John Gottman.
2006-08-31 04:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by MorningG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 16:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by egbe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong in your marriage that youa re tempted int eh first place. To admire a pretty lady is OK, but being tempted is not. Get some marriage counseling!
2006-08-31 04:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by uhhuh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure they are making eyes at you? Hey come on just think that whether would you want your wife to go and F with other guys. :]
2006-08-31 04:34:34 · answer #9 · answered by team_eon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that you have a WIFE at home, and that you are a MARRIED man
2006-08-31 04:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋