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I don't think that there are any good guys left in this world, or atleast near my neck of the woods! I just got out of a horrible realationship. I want to move on, I just don't think I can ever find a decent man to love me and my children. I have 3 children, 5yr(girl), 3yr (boy), 2yr (boy), and one on the way. I don't think I will ever be able to find anyone that would love me and my children. I have too many kids for anyone to want to be with me.

2006-08-31 04:28:12 · 3 answers · asked by day dreamin baby 5 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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of course there are good guys. they're everywhere. but you'll have a next-to-impossible time attracting them with the negative defeatist attitude that you are immersed in right now. and it's proably the same sub-conscious attitude that you had when you chose your last 'horrible' mate. newsflash: you gatta love yourself first.

i've been there babe - horrible mates, kids, lonely,... oh yeah... i finally realized that I was the ONE responsibile for the mates that i attracted. i almost never expected to meet really nice women and i got my subconscious "wish" many many many times. i've found that it's all about what WE think about ourselves [being worthy] and about who WE expect to meet [nice guys/gals].

so use this time between mates to go inside and search your soul and get you beliefs straight. focus on how unique and awesome you are and what it is that you want in a mate and expect to meet him. then, and only then, go out there and open yourself up to a new life. you'll get it.

2006-08-31 07:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by Clit_Lvr 2 · 0 0

You HAVE three children....and ONE on the way? That is allot for one guy to put up with. I mean, have you EVER heard of birth control? Are they with ALL different men? And now you want a "good guy"? Good luck!

2006-08-31 04:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by doc 6 · 1 0

Hi Im moving to greenville contact me at doctordrywllpa@yahoo.com and I love kids they are Gods gift to the world

2006-08-31 04:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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