She is 10 now.
2006-08-31 04:15:33 · 29 answers · asked by dOnNa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
My father todl me when I was 12, but everyone is different. I'd suggest 12-13 because that is aroudn the age they'll "pop the question," they're old enough to understand and you don't want them finding out from anyone else ;).
2006-08-31 04:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by I think... 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well,the best advice i can give you is to make her aware that you are there when she wants to talk and/or has questions.That is the best you can do.Unfortunately,many Teens/Pre-Teens dread "The Talk".Although,dont use books and such.You have to be comfortable and relaxed as they can tell you are nervous,in turn they will be and wont be able to focus and comprehend what you are saying.Be honest and open and allow her to guide you through it.I say this because,she will let you know how much info she needs at certain periods in her life,she will naturally ask questions.Dont make her feel it is something to be ashamed of.At her age,she will begin to explore her body.I did at that age,we all do at sometime.Dont allow her to feel that it is wrong or something that is dirty.She is just learning about her body.That is good because many teens are uneducated on their bodies and sex and are unprepared as far as how to protect themselves and such.Just relax and she will guide you.Break the ice by allowing her to ask questions,tell her you are available to answer her questions whenever she may have any and that you will answer them the best you can.That will open up a whole new window,it will allow you and her to communicate openly.She will ask you questions knowing that you are there rather than talking to friends about it where she more than likely will get inaccurate information or information you may not want her to have just yet.She will ask questions when she is ready,until then just let her know you are there for her when she has those questions.Good luck.
2006-08-31 07:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by ~♡~Moon Goddess~♡~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on their maturity level and what kids talk about at school. I have a 10 1/2 year old daughter and she started hearing things at school in 3rd grade and much more in 4th grade so it was time for the talk. Most of it she asked me about and then we went from there. I do think a lot of schools show them the Birds and the Bees video in 5th grade so you may want to fill her in before that happens.
2006-08-31 04:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should start telling your child about their bodies as soon as they are old enough to understand what you are saying, dont go full detail but tell them the real names of organs on thier bodies usually about 3-4 years old, then when they start school about 5-7 years of age teach them about the opposite gender's body. When they are about 8-10 years old start to tell them what the organs are used for and tell them about sex then. After that age 9-13 tell them your opinions on sex but do not be demanding that they have to wait for marriage or they are in trouble because that is not realistic. Just try to instill good morals into your child but do not demand or she will rebell
Tell her now about sex.
2006-08-31 05:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by marishka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom started talking to me about sex from an early age...like five! I always felt I could be open to her. Kids sometimes will never ask questions directly to you and get all their information from TV or friends. Just think back to when you realized what sex was...for me I knew people had sex around eight or nine...which is early but due to TV....it's hard to "shelter" kids. I suggest to talk to her ASAP...it'll probably help her feel comfortable talking to you when she has sex and needs your help. Good Luck!
2006-08-31 04:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by .vato. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the age of 21
2006-08-31 04:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Raghav 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would wait a couple more years unless she asks. I have heard of kids having sex as young as 12-13, so better to let her know your views about sex before she makes up her mind.
2006-08-31 04:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by peachy4995 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When she has her first period, you will have to explain all the changes her body will go through, So it would be a good time to tell her about sex so that she understands she is becoming a woman and even though she is, she needs to know about sex and std's and pregnancy.
2006-08-31 04:44:04 · answer #8 · answered by sane_nut 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My neice was learning in kindergarten about girl parts and boy parts. Bad touching versus good touching, and what to do if someone touches you. She should at leat know the difference between boys and girls. Start with that..if she asks more, and give more information
2006-08-31 04:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her NOW, dont wait any longer, maybe start by telling her about periods so she wont freak out when she has it, i know my mom told me about everything when i was about 10, i had been hearing about it at school and i asked her, so you should tell you daughter before she has to ask you, because it could be embarrassing to her if she is at school and is the only one who is "out of the loop"
2006-08-31 07:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋