2006-08-31 03:43:33 · 34 answers · asked by amrut_one 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Depend on who you ask - my folks had arranged marraige and they were so happy all their lives!!
2006-08-31 03:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Smokey 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think both can be good or bad. I know lots of stories where girls are abused in arranged marriages because they did not know about their husbands' true nature until after marriage. I also know lots of stories of girls who dated their boyfriends for years before they got married and they get abused too. So I think it really boils down to if you are getting married to the right person or not. Most parents have their childrens' best interests at heart, so when they seek out a spouse through means of an arranged marriage, the result can be a good match and thus a happy marriage. I also know that some young people have the ability to find their soul mate in their own power, which if a good match can also result in a happy marriage. It is not the type of marriage that is important, it is the person you are marrying that makes the difference. I do think it is vital to have the blessing of parents before entering into marriage, be it arranged or love.
2006-08-31 03:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Missy chandrasekar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged love marriage.
2006-08-31 04:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by avarghesem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with Arranged because I have family member’s whose marriages were arranged and they are happy. I too had an arranged marriage and I'm also happy with my Marriage. I have nothing against love Marriages but My preferences is Arranged.
Best of Luck with any decision you make.
2006-08-31 04:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Abhijat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, ALL LOVE MARRIAGES END IN DIVORCE
well most of them anyway, The reason is that the so called love is only short term, when it goes away, it takes all wwith it. moreover, lovers are good as lovers, their lives cannot mix.
Only a few are able to understand the so-called 'true-love' and live with each others lives.
Arranged marriages on the other hand are arranged so that both partners found in such a way that they can support each other, love comes automatically after marriage. That way the relationships are long-lasting and both partners appreciate each other.
2006-08-31 03:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI
I think arranged marriage is far better than love marriage, becasue you know your Would-Be so well, you know each others weakness and strengths before marriage. And at the initial time of marriage, you spend good time to understand each other with due respect and that binds the lasting relationship.
2006-08-31 20:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love Marraiage. Or Arrange Maarraiage.
Love Marriage 4 those who have girlfriend
The persons who don't have but only option left is an arranged marriage
2006-08-31 19:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by aashishjmehta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that in India they have arranged marriages. They work out in some cases. I worked with an Indian girl whose name was Mina and she was from India and I use to pick her brain about the customs of marriage there. Hers was an arranged and I asked her if she loved her husband and she said that she grew to love him but didn't in the beginning. I said to her what if in your country you get married and you really don't love or get along with the husband picked for you? She said that they do get divorced, plus they have to give back the dowry. It's kind of complicated when it come to divorcing.
But I was really interested in how people marry by arrangement and was glad to have the opportunity to ask someone from another country.
As for myself, I would marry for love. I just can't see marrying someone I didn't love. But if I grew up in another country that did that then I might not have any choice!
2006-08-31 04:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a certain extent it is arranged marriage as per a survey.
people might tell it is love marriage ,they tell that we get to know tehe person even much more better,which is really very good but when listening to peoples stories i really think we shudnt opt for that.
some people tell that in arranged marriage there is lot of thrill becoz again unknown person new life etc etc.
but according to me go fr a love marriage.but careful.All the best.
2006-08-31 04:25:47 · answer #9 · answered by priyaedesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your understanding and ability to love every one till the end[forever].If you and your parents have good understading and communication then there is no difference between love marriage and arranged marriage.Suppose, if you loved someone ,you can please your parents and they will agree if your decision they believe is right.And if you have a arranged marriage proposal,it is sure that your parents certainly look exact match for you,as they knew you by birth.But remember to have the Heart to love Every one in you and your spouse. BEST OF LUCK in finding your better half.
2006-08-31 04:06:59 · answer #10 · answered by indian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dosen't matter if it is arrange or love marriage.
If you are happy with your wife/husband after marriage,then that is called a successful marriage whether it's arrange or love marriage. both have got pros and cons in them. so don't think which oneis better, marry to a person with whom when you meet first timeand your heart tells you yes this is the one. Theres no point in thinking about love or arrange marriage. according to me all marriages are ARRANGE Marriage cause they are already arranged by GOD for us.
2006-08-31 03:54:57 · answer #11 · answered by Hidimba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋