We've been swinging now for several years and from talking with our friends, everyone gets into it in their own unique way.
We got into it because I was curious about being with a woman and by doing a lot of research, found that women in the lifestyle are often bi, so we decided to try going to some of the clubs. As we went to the clubs, I felt more comfortable about other guys being involved and things evolved from there.
We have friends of ours who really enjoyed the idea of being watched while they were having sex, so they went to the clubs to be watched. Eventually, others started touching them (with permission) and they enjoyed it.
More friends of ours got into it because of fantasies. There were both turned on by the idea of being with people of different ethnic backgrounds, so finding swingers helped them live out their fantasies.
Overall, the best way to get started is to do some research. A good website we found was www.nasca.com. It gives answers to several questions you may have, rules for swinging and gives listings of clubs in your area.
Whatever you decide...good luck and have fun. We always do.
2006-08-31 09:16:37
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answered by B 3
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First, watch the video at www.lifestylelounge.com. That is a great comic look at how to start. LMAO
Usually, the first step is to find out everything you can about it, and discuss it with your spouse - unless you are a single, which unless you are a bisexual single female, you'll find it very difficult to break into the Lifestyle. Single males are a dime-a-dozen and have wreaked so much havoc in the lifestyle thinking it's an easy way to get some, that many couples shy away from them.
Check out The Swingers Board at (http://www.swingersboard.com) for a plethora of information from swingers discussing everything about swinging. There is tons of good information there.
Second, put an ad on a swingers site like Swinglifestyle, Swappernet, or Swingular. You'll get lots of tips on writing a good profile from The Swingers Board.
Then just let the emails roll in. ;-)
2006-09-01 19:37:03
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answered by Anonymous
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Search the web. There are alot of personal ad sites that cater to this type of life style.
2006-08-31 10:40:29
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answered by simplepleasure 2
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Come on down
2006-08-31 10:42:29
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answered by EL Big Ed 6
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First you need to talk to your partner... communication is essential in this lifestyle.
also there are sites you can check out
http://www.swappernet.com
http://www.nasca.com
or you can e-mail me if you have questions
2006-09-01 13:53:05
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answered by funseeker 3
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what your doing see whop else is.i know im am. write my blog
2006-08-31 10:58:08
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answered by boardinblack 4
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have fun, be safe.
2006-08-31 10:41:40
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answered by J. J 2
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IM me!
2006-09-03 05:38:42
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answered by Anarchy99 7
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