A friend asked to borrow money (I know, I know, I shouldn't have given it to her in the first place), I don't want to hurt the friendship, but how do I get her to repay me?
2006-08-31 03:05:57 · 10 answers · asked by webster1305 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think everyone at some point in their life asks to borrow money. You helped out your friend, nothing wrong with it. There is also nothing wrong with you asking your friend to repay you the money. That is the point of borrowing it. Just let her know that you are having some tough times now and are wondering when she can pay you back by. If you feel it will come out nasty or with an attitude face to face, then simply send an email or a text message. Nothing wrong with wanting your money back. And if it hurts your friendship then it isn't a friendship
2006-08-31 03:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by SxyPR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say look I know your're in a tight situation but so am I. I really need back that money I borrowed you. If you continue to be soft you'll never get back that money. Just be straight foward. If he/she stops the friendship because of money then it was never a frienship to begin with.
2006-08-31 12:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by sh 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every time i loaned money to a friend i always considered it a loss.. I never get paid back that's why i don't loan anymore, but if it was a decent amount of money you lended then i would just straight up tell her you re in need of the money can she please give it to you asap..
2006-08-31 10:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by brutalA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her mom or just say that i want it urgently , pls give and tell her that you will return her back and the best think is just go and tell her parents that you gave her the money but now she is not returning back
2006-08-31 10:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Shaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this...
"Remember that time I lent you some money?...Could I have it back please? I'm really broke! Don't worry! It doesn't have tto be today!" Give her a deadline like "till next week", or something!
Don't say...
"Pay me back you old cow! I'm tired of you grabbing money from me! Take that...(slap!)"
Hahaha!
2006-08-31 10:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dahv Inchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and tell ur friend that u will borrow again if he/she needs but now u just need it. easy
2006-08-31 10:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mahsak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply be honest - tell her you need your money back and ask when you can expect it.
2006-08-31 10:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
like what she said just tell them you need your money back
2006-08-31 10:10:53 · answer #8 · answered by aimee R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the money. don't repeat the same mistake.
2006-08-31 10:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by alladi m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start breaking figures
2006-08-31 10:10:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋