i want my children to see there dad but i do not i am scard of him because he did something to me and athe police are involed thye courts will asek me to take them to the contact center but i can not see him my self has he raped me recently the farther has rights to see his children but who could pick the children up and take them would the courts force me to do it because the police as asked him to stay away does not mean it upsets me if i am forced to do something i do not wont to do. can someone eles take the children to the contact center ordered be the court so the childen see there dad surly someone understands what it means to be raped and i do not wont to see him, because i stoped visits becaise of it he is takeing me to court again in 2 weeks my solistor is usless i asked for a injuntion till something could be worked out but he has had another arrassment warning what can i do
2006-08-31 02:59:35 · 8 answers · asked by kereena@btinternet.com 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can ask for a third party to be responsible... do you have a friend where you could leave your children and have their dad pick them up from there... no court will force you to go in person.. actually he should be in jail... if you ask me...
good luck.. and keep your chin high.. he's a jerk... and you deserve better...
2006-08-31 03:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before each little thing, some advice about the grandmother. i'd imagine you'll get her for slander. you've evidence, or must have, of the lies that she's been telling dhs. to respond to your first question, i trust they're meant to deliver someone from dhs out of the jurisdiction the position you stay yet they'd be in a position to deliver someone from the position they're if the criticism became filed contained in the grandmother's jurisdiction. i understand there are diverse recommendations on how they function. the great element i am going to allow you to realize is to the contact someone from dhs, both jurisdiction, and ask, or perhaps ask a criminal professional who grants loose consultations. i'm not particular what your 2d question is, sorry. wish this helps.
2016-12-06 01:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by lamp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he takes you to court he'll lose. You are still suffering from the rape. Get support from Rape Crisis, you'll find them on Google or in the phone book.
I don't know why you are so keen for your children to see this man. Thats your business not mine, but he is violent and abusive towards you.
If you are Council or Housing Association, tell your landlord. They have to help you move house to stay safe. Good luck.
2006-08-31 03:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by sarah c 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be able to let someone else take them to the contact centre. I don't see why it has to be you, it's the kids he's to see after all. Find out from your solicitor.
Good luck, it must be horrible for you to have pig like that in your life.
2006-08-31 03:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting raped is hard thing to deal with .. i wouldnt want to see him either. i would go to court i know you want your kid to see the father and everything i wouldnt how do you know if he could hurt your kid he hurt you. you can make it so he only can have supervised visits with them. but anyway you dont have to bring them you can have a friend or even one of your parants or a brother or sister
2006-08-31 03:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by angel eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are centres where you go and the kids can see him and you dont have to see him and he has to stsy in the centre with them ask the social services about the centres in your area good luck hun and keep your chin up xXx
2006-08-31 03:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by jkm13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a relative to take them. Maybe a sister, mom etc... I don't blame you I wouldn't want to see him either.
2006-08-31 03:05:00 · answer #7 · answered by jeter2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that you should do,is to learn to use the "check spelling" box.
2006-08-31 03:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 7⤋