Me and a friend lost contact over 8 years ago. I looked for her and could not find her all these years. I just found out where she is and got her phone number from another firend. I don't know if i should call her or not. She left without telling me she was moving. Never once did she try to contact me. My boyfriend did not like her and he still dont. He dosent want me to be around her because she tends to sleep around alot. I have no problem with it but my boyfriend did. I think he may have told her to stay away from me but i am not sure. I miss her friendship and have thought about her alot in the last 8 years. I was there for her when her baby died, through her divorced and then poof she was gone. I really want to call her,but not sure if she wants me to call her.I found out she only lives 20 minutes away? Please help me.
2006-08-31 02:43:40 · 14 answers · asked by pam b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok since everyone so far says call her. What should i say to her? Tell her how glad i am to finally get ahold of her./Or how pissed i am at her?
2006-08-31 02:53:18 · update #1
ok since everyone so far says call her. What should i say to her? Tell her how glad i am to finally get ahold of her./Or how pissed i am at her?
2006-08-31 02:53:23 · update #2
oh well dear 8 years is a pretty long time maybe even she misses you the same way,, the more you will think about the matter the more ur heart will be unhappy,, her character matters to you but unless not coming in your personal life as you said its fine....... but first you talk to ur bf about your calling to her if he still thinks the same or you can explain how good you were and you still think the same and miss her........ and then if your heart says call her.. then only you will be able to think anything else coz your heart will be relaxed then................ go ahead
2006-08-31 02:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her address and send her a card. If she wants to resume contact she will get in touch. If not - no problem, just move on.
She might be trying to put a chapter of her life behind her or she might be afraid to contact you after all these years.
2006-08-31 02:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by jaybird 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you both were really a true friend then u should call her. and definitely for the sake of friendship she wil talk to u friendly. this is my challenge u see. friendship is not like love u know. friendship bond is two times better than love understand.
2006-08-31 02:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Attu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure-8 years is a long time and maybe she has changed or grown up since then. what could be the worse thing that could happen, anyway?
2006-08-31 02:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her. The worse thing that could happen is that she doesn't really want to reconnect. If she does, it could be great to have her back.
2006-08-31 02:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by rchbrk6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should discuss with Ur boyfriend, tell him about Ur mind's want. u know better to Ur boy friend. u may call her with ur boy friend
2006-08-31 02:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by sanat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her... if she wants to speak, great.. if not, the worst that can happen is that you'll know for a fact... and you won't have lost anything that have now!
2006-08-31 02:46:53 · answer #7 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and call her. why should your b/f worry about her sleeping around its not like she is going to sleep with you, and take you away from him. lol.
2006-08-31 02:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to call her.Do that it's your life not his.Mabe she can explane everything.
2006-08-31 02:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its been 8 years!!!!!
2006-08-31 02:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋