My Girlfriend stays 50 miles away from me. The thing is she is a brides maid for a wedding coming up in November and is supposed to come close to my city for rehearsals. She wants me to drive to her house and bring her 50 miles away and then drive her back to her house, then after that i will drive another 50 miles back home!! i told her to get a coach here and i would drive her back, and now she says i am a bad boyfrend? I am i really being unreasonable?
2006-08-31 02:20:28 · 24 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ditch that b*tch
2006-08-31 02:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by EZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you're being unreasonable. It makes sense for her to take a coach there, do her rehearsal, you pick her up at the rehearsal venue maybe - if she has an idea of when she would finish, so you don't have to wait around for her - and then you can be together the rest of the day, including the drive back to her house.
2006-08-31 09:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyshoulder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol - what a little princess! No, you're not being unreasonable. By going 50/50 with her she really has no right to complain! It's good enough that you've compromised
2006-08-31 09:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankie, it isn't you! you sound like you're being more than reasonable and she's being high maintenance. Good luck. If it makes you feel any better, an ex of mine tried to get me to fly back from a skiing holiday in Switzerland to pick her up so she wouldn't have to fly on her own!
2006-08-31 09:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by tomsable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. you are not being unreasonable and she is being very selfish to expect you to do that. If she is like this over one incident what will she be like in the future? I would seriously reconsider your relationship with her and find someone who will appreciate you. Good luck.
2006-08-31 10:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could offer her a place to stay for the nite then there would not be so much driving at night any way but yea she is being to demanding you did not ask her to be in that wedding and did she ask you if it would be ok when told her friend she would be there! she needs to grow up!!!
2006-09-01 20:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Jesus♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being unreasonable.... however I'm curious to know how you manage seeing each other in the first place!
2006-08-31 10:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by ragdoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being serious, you're girlfriend is being more than unreasonable. Tell her to sort herself out. You're not a free 'taxi' service.
2006-08-31 09:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by micksmixxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not unreasonable, I think your suggestion is a good compromise, she is lucky that you are prepared to help her by giving her a lift one way. Stick to your guns.
2006-08-31 09:24:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And you should take her out to lunch or dinner every time she comes up.
And how many rehearsals are they having, anyway?
2006-08-31 09:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is the one being unreasonable she is acting like a spoilt brat... what you have suggested is fair enough ... and surely the person who's wedding it is should be being her there
2006-08-31 09:26:48 · answer #11 · answered by carol p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋