Good techniques that have worked you.
2006-08-31 02:20:24 · 11 answers · asked by koininia777 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just remember that this is the person you love more than anyone else in the world and just because you disagree doesn't mean you shouldn't be together. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We've had the loudest, most bitter arguments you've ever heard. What keeps us together is knowing that whatever is said is only said in the heat of the moment. Often the best way for each of us is to write out our point of views then exchange them with each other.. This generally works after the huge loud blow-out. PS Remember to hug, kiss and tell each other you love them after the fight. Fighting is not bad, it does not mean you should get divorced.
2006-08-31 02:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by kealey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are not supposed to fight with your wife/husband...It's not the reason why you both got married...
As for me, my husband and I will take turns...Per say if I'm having a bad day/bad mood...He'll know off the bat and will let me vent it off...Then 2-3 days later once I'm cooled down he'll talk to me and remind me what happened...If he felt that I was wrong or out of hand...and vice versa...
See, it's best to listen when your wife needs you to listen...Sometimes that's all that takes...Even if we are wrong or right...If you try to make some sense from it in the wrong time...It tends to end up in an agrument...Depending on how long you have been together...You both should be able to tell by now how to communicate with each other...Sometimes we also email each other if the thoughts can't be said...But ofcourse, you have to be careful...There's important things that needs to be said face to face...
Hope that helps :-)
2006-08-31 09:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by $&$& 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont fight to the death,in other words dont say things so hurtful you cant take them back.Everyone argues,but dont let things get out of hand with what you say to each other.
2006-08-31 11:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by scotty c. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fight. My husband and I have been together for 3 years, married for one and we have not had an argument. We talk through things and it doesn't escalate. We have a high level of respect for each other.
2006-08-31 09:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dont have any techniques about that becoz i dont fight with her. To be tolerant is the only solution.
2006-08-31 09:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by HOTTürk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For as dumb as this sounds...domestic violence classes teach you the best ways to fight with your spouse/significant other.
2006-08-31 09:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Zelda 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
"Listen" to what she says. Be a good listener & act accordingly to communicate effectively and compromise.
2006-08-31 09:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by bereftcat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your voices down, and never go to bed mad.
2006-08-31 10:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't go to crazy on her
2006-08-31 09:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her win
2006-08-31 09:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋