That ISN'T religious, i mean. The religious 'type' can get their religion to explain anything, but does anyone else bother these days?
Just an idle thursday avo thought?
2006-08-31 02:15:50 · 37 answers · asked by Chris M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
shouldn't you try before you buy
2006-08-31 02:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by mz.hunnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are a few that wait but not many. Now-a-day, marraige isn't secure anymore. I had a friend who married a guy and she was virgin...Maybe 9 months later he was ready to get a divorce and he said he had the best of her already and it was time to move on. Having pre-marital sex is the same as having marital sex in my opinion. Plus those people who probably made the rules about sex probably didn't even remain true to their words...So who cares...just make sure its a decision that you can live with... with ya dig?
2006-08-31 02:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by DivaStats 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I should think there are very very few people like that. The fact is they don't have much of a motive to wait 'till marrige. A religious man will wait because he believes it's God's will. But what would someone else have to wait? Nothing really.
2006-08-31 03:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by kahuna382000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think virtually always, outside of religious people, if someone can find someone they're sexually attracted to, and is able to get them into bed, they will have sex with them. It's just accepted as part of the general culture. I think most of the time when non-religious people don't have sex, it's involuntary. Every person I can think of who abstains voluntarily is involved in religion.
2006-08-31 02:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Xanther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's much more common in America than in the UK because the govt has launched a massive campaign to promote abstinence.
I know 2 people that waited until they were married, but they didn't wait long... both married their first ever boyfriends, at very young ages.
2006-08-31 02:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah to be honest i waited & was 31yrs and i did never ever had a thought or to touch a girl but when i got engage with a uk girl as if i found is that the girl didn't have those feelings for 1st time meeting with a boy and as if she had already been experiance with other boy earlier to me not giving me an attention what i am trying to say plus she always be in sharp knife tone...
therefore i was confused and ended the relationship with her in 4 months time....
i don't know she lied to me or she was hiding about her feelings towards me....
can anyone answer me, and keep me happy by emailing at;
vips_5@yahoo.com
2006-08-31 03:42:19 · answer #6 · answered by Vips_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few people that do not have sex before marriage. My brother is 24 and has made that decision for himself.
2006-08-31 02:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by jacemo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends where you are on part of the earth. I lost my virginity at 9 with my teenager friend. I know many who have had it before marriage. But lets hear from those who have not had it before.
2006-08-31 04:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by RM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me, but I do admit that there are very few people who marry as virgins now a days. That includes members of both sexes.
2006-08-31 02:18:17 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are people that still believe sex before marriage is a sin. It happens more often than people think.
2006-08-31 02:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by joanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work with someone who is 31 and still a virgin, he had been waitng for the right girl to come along, she has now and they get married next year. God help her
2006-09-01 08:17:36 · answer #11 · answered by Candy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋