i am in love with a guy & he too say he love me & our relation is going on for the past 3 yrs. we want to marry too, last month i accidently discovered that he had put his profile on the net looking for a dateing partner. just after 3 months when our relation started, he say he dont remember why he did it & has never looked at any girls profile. but i feel cheated & i am not able to trust him. but i still love him a lot & am not able to forget him. he calls me every day to apoligised to me & said he truely love me. should i trust him?
2006-08-31 01:57:26 · 4 answers · asked by riya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it happened 3 years ago and nothing ever came of it, let it go. But if there is recent activity of internet dating, do NOT trust him. If the 2 of you are in a committed relationship and contemplating marriage, he has no business searching for a dating partner. As a matter of fact, his honesty is questionable all together. Ask yourself why he would still have that data if he never really intended to use it. I would feel cheated and violated as well. It's your right. If you want to give him another chance be aware that he can be sneaky and that you may be subjecting yourself to more deceit. Good luck.
2006-08-31 02:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no trust there is nothing at all in the relationship...of course you are going to feel hurt because he has that on the net but that was a long time ago...right?....well forget it and just make it clear to him if thats what he wants then it's time to leave you alone...but if you say he don't be on there and he don't look at any profiles then maybe he was thinking about it and now that he really is serious about you, he don't care about that okay...good luck....
2006-08-31 09:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by MZ.LANDA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm tricky one. I would think seen as it was a while ago he posted the 'ad' and your relationship was still in its early days he may not have been at that time 100% sure of his feelings for you like he is now. sit down with him and have a chat ask him to explain honestly why he did it and tell him how it made you feel when you found out personaly i would not write off a good relationship now because of something all those years ago unless he was still being un honest now
2006-08-31 09:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not right, because as big as the net is is very easy to fall in love online nowdays!
2006-08-31 09:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋