I angry with my friend that is very nice and care about me very much!!!and i,m disturbed!!!what can i do,she makes me angry!!!but she is a nice person!!
2006-08-31 01:41:50 · 19 answers · asked by someone!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask yourself these questions:
What is making me angry?
Why is it making me angry?
Is that a good reason?
If the third answes was yes, go talk to your friend about why you are angry, but make sure you tell her how nice you think she is overall but that this ONE thing ticks you off. Ask nicely if she can stop it and apologize.
Regardless of your third answer, ask yourself this:
What can I do to make myself feel better?
I find that taking old ceramic pots (that I make sure no one wants) and smashing them with a hammer does the trick. Seriously, it kept a smile on my face all day! =D
2006-08-31 02:10:23 · answer #1 · answered by pseudonym 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, sister. Take a deep breath. No one makes you angry. Only you do that to yourself.Ask yourself, why do you react so angrily to her. Jealousy? Does she represents something? If you wan to keep the friendship, then you need to get at the root of your anger issues. Good luck, dear.
2006-08-31 08:50:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what it is about her that makes you angry.... don't let it build up! If she's really so sweet and caring.... she'll understand and maybe the two of u could come to some kind of compremise.
2006-08-31 08:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what makes u angry?Sit here down and say look i like u ask a friend but there r somethings u can't do like .................And ask her to stop those things if shes a good friend she will.
2006-08-31 08:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by shorty60ee9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to your friend and be honest with her. let her know what it is about her that makes you disturbed!!!? if she is a real true and genuine friend then she will undersrand. sometimes people do things to try and grab attention of another person that they are trying to impress, maybe thats what she is doing.
2006-08-31 08:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Amy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give some time to her as u said she is a nice person
2006-08-31 08:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by anshulgupta1988 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your jealous of her thats what it is!
she must be a happy person ! so you need to get over it and just be glad that she cares for you! some people will think your lucky to even have a friend who cares !
2006-08-31 08:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by yen12rs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a nice person, yet she makes you angry, why is that?
2006-08-31 08:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by IDNTGIVASHT 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait! you mean you don't like to be loved and cared for? or is it just that she over do things?
since she's a nice person, let her know your frustration.. but it seems to me that you're afraid that you may be falling for her and vice-versa.
2006-08-31 08:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by Samantha T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of being jealous, just admire you're friend and aspire to have traits like her...if you're in a fight for some reason, just talk about it and everything will end up being okay
2006-08-31 09:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by exactly826 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋