If so, what happened?
2006-08-31 01:09:47 · 12 answers · asked by housewife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nicky
takes a lot of nerve I know - depends if you are single, married etc and the same for them. interested in knowing more if you want to email
shelley_peters34@yahoo.co.uk
2006-08-31 01:16:26 · update #1
i found my ex's email address on the net but i still haven't written to him
cant find the nerve to write
i sometimes have the urge but don't have the courage
2006-08-31 01:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also had the curiosity to find my first ex once but I changed my mind. There is a reason why we end the relationship in first place and if the feeling were not resolved, either good or bad, it would be awkward seeing or hearing from him.
Honestly, I don't love him any more and don't have any interest in seeing him, other then to know if he is as successful as he said he would be. I'm also afraid to know how I would feel about him after all these years if I saw or spoke to him. Don't want to jeopardize my relationship now for something that did not work out in the first place. I would get jealous too if I get to meet his wife.
Everyone is different I suppose so if you can handle it, be careful and be respectful. It's hard if the relationship you had with your ex was strong and if the ex is married or seeing somone serious, your feelings may show, and the other person's feeling may show as well, and worst, in front of their spouse or gf. That's not right.
If no feeling are there, then you invite your gf or wife to join you and everyone can share the moment together. I don't agree meeting with the ex alone if both are compromissed or in this case if one is single and the other is not. That's dangerous territory. That's my opinion.
I wouldn't do it or allow my partner to do it. I don't feel confortable unless my bf introduces me to his ex and he has no physical or emotional attachment to her. Also if he clarifies to her that there is or never will be anything more then a catual friendship and I can see it.
I realize I went on a tangent but I thought I add a little more flair.
Good luck.
2006-08-31 01:44:22 · answer #2 · answered by Treasure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - a group of us from the same class found each other (22 years after we all left the same school) and met up. A great night's drinking was had by all!
2006-08-31 01:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kept in contact with a first love I had when I was 19, I would email him now and again, mostly just dumb Internet jokes. After my divorce I emailed him and went for a visit, we have been happily married for a year. I do caution you, if you are married and happy don't look for trouble. If you just want a friend and you trust yourself and your relationship it is fine. Otherwise let it rest. don't dig into the past.
2006-08-31 01:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a good friend found my name on the website and wrote to me, we have spoken via emails lots of times and have met up.
We phone each other all the time and i have ben through to see her and her kids.
It is like we have never been apart and i will always be thankful for her taking the chance to contact me again.
It's great having her and her family back in my life.
2006-08-31 01:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by raebelluk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy I knew from school sent me a e-mail saying he was coming back to the area for a week I hadent seen him in 6 / 7 years I agreed to go for a drink and relive old memories
it was fun we had a night of passion and he went home to his wife
2006-08-31 12:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did and wrote to him for a few years before I actually met him again in person. It gave me some closure that I didn't get when I was a kid. After I finally met him I was so turned off by his, "Full of himself" attitude that I didn't talk to him anymore. I think he might be gay because he never married.
2006-08-31 01:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re met My first girlfriend when I was just 10....been together now for 5 years ..living together..getting married soon.
2006-08-31 01:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a load of old school friends met up because of the site - good fun but nothing came of it for me and a particular ex of mine - shame really.
2006-08-31 01:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,and i was surprised to find out how mutch people can change ,and how happy he was that i've stop a few minutes to talk with him,than we stablish a date for meet us and go to drink a coffee.sometimes we need to remember our past or even meet some one from the past
2006-08-31 01:29:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋