My boyfriend and I been together for 1 year and 9 months but we knew each other for 6 years and we're practically best friends but things got really bad in the relationship to the point where I want to give up but I can't because he's such a sweet guy and he accepts me for who I am and not what I got or what I do. But the cons in the relationship is that he's a mama's boy and he's 20. He got a 10pm curfew and when I spent the night at his house he got 2am curfew to sleep in his mom's bedroom. And she calls him every 15 minutes whenever I'm with him. It never use to bother me before but a year later it's getting old and it's affecting me really bad. He also changes when he's around people and he don't like it when I talk to some of my guy friends. I sometimes dont have privacy cause he's always around. We went on couple breaks so we both can fix our relationship but nothing never works so I feel like I wan out of the relationship. I need help, can you tell me what to do
2006-08-31 00:53:16 · 10 answers · asked by lilruby052001 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have asked whether we can tell you what to do. We can, but it would be better for you to make your own decision.
Breaking up with a boyfriend who you still love, could well turn out to be a decision that you will come to very much regret. You will need to make doubly sure that that is what you really want, because chances are, there won’t be any turning back!!!
You mentioned that your boyfriend is such a sweet guy, and that he accepts you for who you are, rather than for what you’ve got or what you do. It is good that your boyfriend accepts and respects you that way… Are you that way toward him???
I don’t want to be critical of you or anything, but you really need to sit down with this boyfriend of yours, and tell him straight out what you feel. Let him know how much you do love him, and why you feel that things can’t continue the way they are. Let him know that the last thing you want to have to do is break up with him, but unless things change, you will have no choice but to move on with life without him.
Good luck!!!
2006-08-31 00:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love him, but you'll have to get over it. Tell him that you do not like the curfews and how he is acting when there are other people around. If he doesn't change, then you should break up. How to break up with him? Tell him why.
2006-08-31 07:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by space 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may need to move on... he's still attached to home. When he's able to move out on his own and have his ownlife, then it might work. Talk to him about it, and see how he feels about things. If he is stuck there, then tell him nicely that you have to move on, wish him the best, then don't look back. You sound like a very nice person, and attractive too! Don't be afraid to move ahead with your life. Good luck!
2006-08-31 08:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit with him and explain everything like you have done here , there is nothing better than facing the problem head on. All the best keep us posted as to what happend
2006-08-31 07:57:49 · answer #4 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When love beckons to you follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.
2006-08-31 07:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds so complex....is he the only son?maybe dats why his mother cnt let go of him.......and he must have the same feeling of love/obligation for his mother...see now ur jus 20....but wen u get older and hafta settle down...do u pict a life wid this guy?forever?with his over protective muothe ron his side???y waste ur time in something thats drain u emotinally in the future...might as step outta it now till its too late and much harder to do...keep him ur frnd...let him know how u feel...say that u dnt pic him as ur bf....but ur best frnd....
2006-08-31 08:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by Bluepolka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a little off the beaten path....Only you can decide,if its worth the fight...always can try living togehther ...or spending time out-side his mothers house,Good-Luck....
2006-08-31 08:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by outback 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too long but you can't want to breakup and still love him. Get it out of your head and Just Do It.
2006-08-31 07:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wish i could help babe but i dont know if he is even normal. i heard of mamma boys but he is a straight nut. just tell him this aint workin we gotta part ways
2006-08-31 07:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by HUSTLER 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you and I have been sexing each other up,and I keep your toes curled, UNLIKE him!
2006-08-31 08:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋