My husband tells me that I am not the average 40ish type woman. I am 5'6'' 118lbs, 36-25-35, excellent health, I work out everyday, I have been told that I am beautiful, I get hit on regularly, I have a Masters Degree, I have very high sex drive, I am a grandma, I wear a size 2 in womens petite. My hair, teeth, nails are all intact and groomed, I have all my girly parts and still could have a baby, don't want anymore, Hubby thinks I am to energetic and should act my age! That pissed me off, how does a 44 yr old act?
2006-08-31 00:44:41 · 18 answers · asked by want2flybye 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'll trade ya! Tell him he should be grateful that you aren't fat, saggy, tired, stupid and boring.
2006-08-31 00:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is wow...you are blessed to be so well kept with the stressful life nowadays. My mom is in her 50s, she also looks a lot younger and she does not act "the way a 5o year old should.." whatever the hell this means...She is free minded, has a great youthful spirit and although she has walked a thorny path she doesn't give up. I admire her for this. There is no wrong or right way to act, just be yourself and don't think about it, act the way you feel. And enjoy life, you are blessed!
2006-08-31 07:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by the1&only 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, although I don't know how to help you, I could tell you jokes to help you feel better. The jokes goes:
-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
-What problem?
One more joke:
A guy calls his vet and says "What should I do with my cat?Vet says "What do you mean? Guy says "I had a leak in my lawnmowers gas tank and the cat drank the gas. Then the cat began to run around and around the yard, climbed a tree. then fell out of the tree stiff. Vet says "Is the cat dead? Guy replies "nope he ran out of gas.
Last of all just want to tell you that whatever you do, just don't give up. Also you must love and care for the people around you. In that way they will also show you the love that you show to them. Just be yourself and happy everyday. Wish you all the best and good luck!!
2006-08-31 07:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're husband sounds insecure. I'm sure your happy with you. He is probably just getting pissed off because you're probably looking better as you age and him...who knows, only you. Just have some wild sex with him and while hes really into it ask him "Do you really have a problem with the way I am because I can change if you really want me too...I don't think 44 yr. old women *** this good so I think I'll stop..." Watch his reaction.
2006-08-31 07:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it weird that your husband acts that way? I'm a 39 year old guy who has the body of a 19 year old athlete . . . my wife NEVER compliments me on how I look (I too get hit on, most recently by a very hot and in shape 20 year old). It's just too weird, why can't spouses appreciate it when their spouse stays in shape, looks great, etc?
I just keep in shape, keep playing competitive sports . . . my kids (oldest is 8) love when I flex my arms muscles. At least THEY appreciate it!
Hang in there and enjoy the attention you receive.
2006-08-31 07:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok act your age !! dump him and move in with me as i'm 44 still go to amusement parks and ride all the rides, love 24 hr sex, only have a B.A. though, still have most of my hair and all my teeth, don't chew tobacco, or spit in the corners.. that will show him! age is a statement not a way to act!
2006-08-31 07:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a vibrant, happy, sexy, smart woman!! What is his problem?!? Tell him he should lose the remote, go to the gym with you and get some of that energy back. Otherwise you may find it tempting to respond to those offers you receive! Age is only a number... it's about how you live your life. Have fun!!!
Oh... and hell yes, I'd call you!!!
2006-08-31 07:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your husband has a small mind which stereo-types people. Doesn't he realise that there are no two people alike, and that everybody behaves in their own way.
He would probably prefer a dumb blonde couch potato. Tell him you'll find oe for him if he likes, and then you'll be free to find a more appreciative partner.
2006-08-31 08:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
44=22x2. So you are twice as good as a 22 yold girl.
There! I've proven to you mathimatically u should not worry about how u act.
2006-08-31 07:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by ogiwrgos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not an average 44 year old....you sound like you look way to good to be 44.....you are illegal in 140 countries....LOL.....if you have the energy, use it.....even if it means not acting your age....I assume he means, I am old and run down...slow it down, and mellow out......that is how 44 year olds are....though it is a shame....love him, have pity on him....and be yourself
2006-08-31 07:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is why i live with a 24year old I am 43 but my girl friend is 24. try a 24 year old
2006-08-31 08:02:08 · answer #11 · answered by dg_154u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋