men usually get too jealous and i really dont know how to handle such.
2006-08-31 00:36:08 · 11 answers · asked by lipsy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
talk to him and explain him the matter
2006-08-31 00:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by yogesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, let me see... someone said that jealousy comes from some type of provocation on behalf of the third party towards you or if this case was reversed to your partner. If he is insecure about the relationship and feels that you are still looking or comparing him to someone better, he may feel jealous. I'm no psychologist, however, if the jealousy becomes excessive where you have to give him an account of everything that you do and say then you need to move on b/c people like that can be dangerous. Don't settle for the "I'm sorry line" either b/c they will repeat it again. Talk to him with caution. It appears he is sensitive to your feelings and reactions, reassure him that you are with him, and unless you decide to move on, tell him he has nothing to worry about. If you have mixed feelings of the relationship then tell him about it too but just bring up issues that arise between the two of you and no one else. Everyone knows about the "gut feeling". I think this is what triggers these emotions and alerts partners alike to be weary of their partners.
God bless.
2006-08-31 00:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Treasure 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't put up with that.
Talk to your guy, and tell him he either trusts you or doesn't, but under no circumstances will you alter your life, or make decisions based on the fact that he's going to act like a nut.
In other words if you are deciding not to go to the mall with your friend, because your guy will be angry, then you are altering your life and making decisions that would allow you not to suffer the consequences of his jealousy. You'd be allowing him to control your life.
Base your decisions on what you'd like to do, and as long as YOU have no moral issues with your decision, then you are in the right. If he blows up, ignore it. You say I'm sorry that you don't trust me, but there's nothing I can do to fix that for you. It's his issue, not yours. Make him deal with his own hang ups. The very minute you give in to his foul behavior, you'll be letting him know that it is acceptable for him to act this way, and you will have encouraged him to both continue, and get worse.
If it comes down to dumping him, then dump him. You can not seriously love somebody who doesn't trust you. Love is not about what you can put up with. It's about being respected, and supported.
Good luck
2006-08-31 01:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy with a reason. Try to understand his moods and the kind of behaviours he expects from you at all times and also you should get him to understand that you really need to improve on your level of interaction with friends and collegues and most of all the relationship should not be all about him. Just like him you have an interest at stake. Wish you the best. Love is a two way ticket.
2006-08-31 01:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by gbagun c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont know the situation but if your in a relationship with a guy, and hes getting jealous its usually because you're giving him a reason in some way. Ask yourself if the situation was reversed how would you feel, that works for me.
2006-08-31 00:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jack J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy from either male or female comes from insecurity on their part. Do not take the blame for their short comings. And tho it may be cute in the begining it will only get worse. You know if you are doing anything wrong,if you are then get out of this relationship. If not send him home to grow up. Good luck, jealously breeds contempt & violence
2006-08-31 01:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by crrankin22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can't really say any thing about because i am jealous. that doesn't make him a bad person. maybe something happened to him to make him not trust people. life make you who you really are suppose to be or maybe i should say past experiences. talk to him if you like him a lot an explain to that you don't like the way he behaves. reassure him that he has nothing to worry about. maybe someone hurt him pretty bad. he probably opened his heart to someone and they crushed it. give a chance just try to talk to him first.
2006-08-31 03:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by sweet sexy san 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's jealous then he's just insecure about being the only man in your life becuase he thinks theres compitition with everyone around him...He thinks he's not good enough..Make him believe that he's it, that theres no one else..Cause if he's jealous all the time that means he thinks there's someone else in the picture.
2006-08-31 00:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Larry F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mmm, I mean, who's ever heard of a jealous female?
The only difference I can see is that women appear to hide their emotions (intentions?) better than men, I would ask 'how perverse is that?' but I don't want to waste my points.
Oh no, I'm selfish as well, help!!
2006-08-31 00:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very hard mine was the same but like i did keep him up to date with where i was, who with, showed him text messages yes you want to run a mile. But they will be a great guy underneath.. Its only past that's done this to him and maybe afraid history repeating.
2006-08-31 00:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by sandra+3... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him because he needs to learn to trust if the relationship is going to work.
2006-08-31 00:40:43 · answer #11 · answered by sheyjj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋