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doing anything they say and being kind to them has not helped...

2006-08-31 00:31:17 · 8 answers · asked by dreamy 5 in Social Science Sociology

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It sounds like they may be somehow trying to control you through anger. Continue to be kind, but it is OK to not let them control you. They must learn to accept you for who you are.

2006-08-31 00:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Paul K 6 · 0 0

They have problems.....mood swings? Hormones? Depression? Jerks have been known to do this to?

Do not cater to this person, they are doing it for attention, whether it is negative attention or not, they have you where they want you. I suggest you leave, tell them you will be back when they feel better. That puts you in control of the situation, not them....good luck

2006-08-31 00:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0 0

See Mookie, you are making mad by asking this question. People get mad for all reasons...but it is a function of their condition, environment, status , tiredness etc etc....Most of the time, you just caught them at the wrong time.

2006-08-31 00:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the fact that you think you did nothing wrong is moot. you wronged them, that's why their mad. if you argue that you didnt do anything, it only makes you look clueless. just apologize and move on with life.

2006-08-31 00:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

happens all the time. people just don't think alike no matter how hard we try to be clear, or nice, or cooperative, sooner or later there will be misunderstandings. it always hurts when it's one of your favorite people or something completely unexpected or when you thought it was someone who knew you well enough to understand what you meant, doesn't it?

2006-08-31 00:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by sheepherder 4 · 1 0

sometimes people are mad because they are frustrated......is this person frustrated with you?

and don't do everything they say...that isn't good either....being kind is all right...

this person seems to be wanting a reaction from you....anger maybe??

2006-08-31 01:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 1 0

Even if you don't "feel" you did anything to them, there's a good chance they "feel" you did. There are two sides to every story.....your side isn't always right!

2006-08-31 00:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by wildraft1 6 · 0 0

You don't feel that you did anything wrong but they do! Ask what you did and apologize if it makes sense.

2006-08-31 00:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0 0

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