List at least 3 things that YOU can do to make life with you in marriage better. Be honest!
2006-08-31 00:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-08-31 00:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not all about sex. It is about unconditional love. Don't get me wrong sex isn't bad and I love sex but it doesn't make or break a marriage. Face it, when we get older we lose our equipment (or desire) and what do we have left? Being in eachothers company. 3 things I would do to make my marriage better are:
1. Spending more quality time with my man and doing things he likes to do or things we like to do together.
2. Spending more quality time with our kids (though we have none yet) and getting to know them and teach them values, morals, and such.
3. Love him more than I did the day before and learn to compromise better when we get into 'it'.
2006-08-31 00:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage with me, make it better...hmm...
TALK to me. Don't just talk at me while watching the tv. TURN IT OFF once in a while and have a conversation with me. My hubby and I take time every morning and night , just 5 min or so, of quiet to discuss the day . It reallyhelps.
Pick Up After Yourself.
I ain't your mama, the maid OR the Janitor!! Pick up your own dishes and shoes and socks and dirty underwear!! I'm half blind , I can barely find my own stuff! Marriage is more than 50/50, you gotta go 90/90 alot of the time.
Be THOUGHTFUL. Think of the things you can do and do them before you are asked to. See something that needs to be put away? DO IT before you get asked to or so that It isn't just one more thing on MY workload, which is enough as it is!
There, 3 things that could help ME in my marriage.
3 things I could do to help my husband in HIS part of our marriage;
Be softer. I could be more feminine for him and try to wear make up and be more ' womanly' for him . ( we live in the country and work outside and its hard to wear much besides work clothes... dresses? HA! )But a little perfume now and then wouldn't be hard, and I know he likes one of mine alottttt.... hey...
Let him have more time to get online. He moved to Arkansas into the mountains to be with me and he has friends online around the world, as do I. So I know he would appreciate a little more time to be able to chat with them. I could probably schedule our work a little better so we could both get online more often...
There, 3 things I can do to make marriage better fo BOTH of us! Thanks for this little exercise, it was very helpful!!
2006-08-31 00:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by heatherlovespansies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take notice of what your partner likes and dislikes.
Try to surprise them at least once a day in a nice way.
MOST IMPORTANT - TALK to them. Talk like you would with a friend or an old school mate. Dont talk about your kids, or work, or paying the bills...talk about things you want to do, places you want to see, movies, music etc.....treat them as a friend - believe me, this works and makes a huge difference.
2006-08-31 00:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Involve God in it
2. Love each other unconditionally
3. Visit this lovely website dedicated to putting the heart of Christ back in to marriage
2006-08-31 00:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. forgive and forget, no matter what let it go.
2. sacrifice, do things that your partner likes but perhaps you don't, it lets them know how much you want to spend time together with them and how important they are.
3. express your love not just in words, but in simple actions and compliments. do the d ishes, or the clothes just because, mow the lawn, simple task that your partner would normally do that you can do for him/her.
2006-08-31 00:08:39 · answer #6 · answered by Opie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Improve communication
2. Tell my wife that I appreciate her more.
3. Spend more time together.
2006-08-31 00:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by burns529 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will be more caring to my husband and his parents. 2. I will share my intrest to my husband and also take part on his intrests. 3.I will talk to my husband very friendly on any matter and also listen his matters. 4. I will change my hair style and my clothes according to his choice. It helps to change my previous image and my husband will take more intrest in me Try them god will help you best of luck.
2006-08-31 00:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by kajalb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk, listen and be understanding of the other persons feelings.
2006-08-31 00:43:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dorrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy and let them be happy by caring , communicating and respecting .
2006-08-31 00:30:24 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋