plz i need changes in my life, iwant to be bold enough to face any chanllenges that may come to my way.
2006-08-30 23:48:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Words & Wordplay
I assume that you fit a personality in my mind and I have met many doctors who are like you. My advise is to keep your attitude and polish it to a style. Open you mouth only when you have to and learn patience for the right opportunity. Silence can be deafening if you are in the right position.
If you are struggling for position, let your actions speak louder and clearer.
If you are in a position that demands you to speak and confront another person, let the other finish; do not speak when demanded but only when you are ready. Your brillance and intelligence will sail through adversary.
2006-08-31 00:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Doctor B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you have to be bold and outspoken? Nobody likes a gobshite. There are more ways of being confident than shooting your mouth off all the time. Concentrate on the still quiet centre in you, find out what your heart says to you and strive for peace and contentment. If you do get to be "an empowered woman in your own right, bold, confident and outspoken"" you will be an a**hole of the first order with no regard for other people other than a reflection of your "empowerment" I am sure you do not want to be so full of yourself that you are insensitive to other peoples opinions, wants and need to be heard. I have known a few women who have gone down this road and only one of them turned out to be a nice woman, the rest were very obnoxious and far too full of themselves to listen to anyone else. I hope this helps, I have found that confidence is not an end in itself, the world is full of people who can give you nice things, give some back to them.
2006-08-31 06:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say neither. I went out with a quiet guy once. It became out he had upload & became out of it most of the time. He in no way remembered a element I stated & did not say a lot. It became like i became in no way round. i do not extremely look after outspoken men or cocky men both. ideally i would like someone who i am going to have a deep one on one communique with, yet isn't a noisy mouth even as there's a crowd of persons.
2016-12-06 00:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. There must be some underlying problem that you are not facing. I personally force myself into awkward situations to help me confront my fears etc. On another level I am also seeking counselling to combat fears and increase my own confidence. You're half way there by realising that you are a great person, you just need a little tweeking like me. I wish you lots of luck x
2006-08-30 23:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're brilliant and intelligent, you should know that the other virtues can be easily acquired. You just have to put your mind on the topic.
2006-08-30 23:55:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that what you need to do is socialise more, although being with a group of people you know and trust is easier than being with a group of strangers, of who you'll probably feel uncomfortable being around with. talk about things that interest you, which then could be of interest to them and also ask them questions. don't be shy! they probably won't mind this, just as long as you don't say anything to offend them. but if you detect that they are not comfortable then always ask and afterwards apologise.
2006-08-31 00:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are so brilliant and intelligent you shouldn't´t fell this way. the first step is recognise that you have this qualities, but this you have already done, In my opinion the next step is: make new friends and let these friends help you. probably you don´t have so many friends, am I wrong?
2006-08-30 23:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by John N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your ATTITUDE!!!
Only YOU can change it, transforming your life and the way you live it.
U say you are intellgent that means you have the ability to THINK and think RIGHT, always remember that if you think right, why are you afraid to LET IT OUT!!!
Give it a try and see what happens, GOOD LUCK!!!
CHEERS!!!!
2006-08-30 23:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Eternity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confident is good, outspoken is not necessarily good.
Challenges can make us stronger, face them, overcome them, learn from them.
Go out and do something new and challenging.
2006-08-30 23:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by Dan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of something unrelated that gets you mad. The anger will overcome your inhibition. Transfer the anger energy into assertive energy.
2006-08-31 04:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋