I have a friend who, each time I ask her if she saw something on TV, she'll say NO even though for a fact she HAS seen it (found out from her mom she has). If I ask her a favour, she'll say "I don't know how to do it" - when I know she can (for example I asked her if she could record something on her video for me, as mine had broken down and she has both a video and TV in her bedroom and she said she didn't know how to do it). Also, when my poor mom wasn't well, I asked if she would mind helping me with 1 week's groceries. She said, "You can carry 6 bags in each hand yourself". Why do people act this way?
2006-08-30 23:29:13 · 11 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Your Friend is most defiantly SELFISH i have said this answer before on here and i still stand by it a friend is someone that will do all this for you and more...
i bet if she asked you for anything you would give it gladly
she is not a friend but an acquaintance...
Alaways remember... A friend in need is a friend indeed
Ditch this girl find another friend personally i would not even entertain her again find another friend who will record that program for you if you know your gonna miss it
it sounds like she dint want to help you carry your shopping in case she broke a nail its disheartning to really believe that there are people out their that are really like that ..
2006-08-31 00:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is p****? Your friend isn't much of a friend if she can't help you out with a little thing like recording a video. Now you definitely know that she's not a friend if she can't help you out when you're in jam, like groceries. I would say kick her to the curb because she obviously don't give a s.hit about you. Find out if she's on some kind of disorder medication. With friends like that who needs enemies.
2006-08-31 06:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by adrianj_518 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this think happen sometimes to me look my frend and i will go to middle school she said me she wants to be at the same class with me but now that school start she doesnt want so i said my self forgot her and its better without friend that with such friend if u want to know why the nswer is simple they think are above us and a help for us is a servis and they do not want to do servise.if you want u can write to my email.
2006-08-31 06:42:09 · answer #3 · answered by zerinabruci 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know about you, but my friends would never act like that. i don't even think you could call her a friend. she seems indifferent to you and what you need in a friendship....a friend will help you...a friend is always there for you...
this girl seems really self-centered and only interested in herself. is this what you want in a friend? you should find yourself another one...
2006-08-31 08:02:26 · answer #4 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur friend is goin through a hard time although that might be it she still should act like that maybe u should try talkin 2 her or just let ur friendship have some personal time between u to!!!
2006-08-31 06:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by spongegurl246 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your friend is selfish, and always looking out for herself. Maybe you ought to find a new friend who will treat you properly.
2006-08-31 06:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Greg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find a better friend she sound a bit selfish to me
2006-08-31 06:38:03 · answer #7 · answered by MJane21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding a new friend, someone worth keeping and someone who will always have your back and take care of you.
2006-08-31 06:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might just be sarcastic. She's not telling you lies either, is she? When someone consistently refuses to help you in any way though, you might want to re-evaluate your friendship.
2006-08-31 06:34:09 · answer #9 · answered by McAtterie 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
treat her the same way she treating u. see what happens. but i think u know this already but try it any how. may be she will surprise every one.
2006-08-31 06:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋