Okay, yesterday I was on the school bus with my friends coming home, And me and my friend were talking and someone in the back of the bus was throwning some paper, pebbles, and pens at me and I heard some gigling. I told them to stop and they keep on doing and then I started to cuss and swear at them but I didn't know who did it. They keep on doing it and I got up and got off the bus and some threw a bottle at me and I ran back to the bus and stood in front of it and I told the bus driver that I'm going to stand here until I find the motherf****** who was throwing stuff at me. So I stood in front of the bus for at least 30-45 mins and some of the kids had to pee but I didn't care. The police came and they were questioning us, but no one got arrested. I had to do that because they keep bothering me and those kids are alkways try to push me around because I'm a nice person. But being nice is getting me no where, I have to be feitsy and bitchy to get what I want.
2006-08-30 23:22:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I bet they don't bother you when they're alone, only when they are together in their little "clique." Isn't that right? That's because they really feel threatened by you somehow, otherwise they wouldn't bother with their nonsense...They sit in the back of the bus because that makes it easier for them to remain anonymous. A more subtle form of "stabbing someone in the back." I think what you did was very brave and showed you won't put up with anyone's crap. Good for you!
2006-08-31 00:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Evil Wordmonger, LTD LOL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think you were being nice by swearing etc back at them? Maybe you should of told the bus driver. I am sure if things were being thrown on the bus he would have been aware of it. Its ok to stand up for yourself but to start an all out 'war' was not the best way to handle things dont you think - unfortunately, it seems youdidnt know when to stop either. This is not good behaviour. what did your mum say about it? I am sure she would be dissapointed in your behaviour too.
2006-08-30 23:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by PERCY L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they know how to press your buttons and they get a perverse pleasure out of seeing others suffer. Hopefully one day they will grow up but until then be yourself. You did the right thing by standing in front of that bus now go to your principle and let him/her know what is going on and tell your principle if this doesn't stop you and your family will be suing the school for not providing you with a safe environment to learn in.
2006-08-30 23:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because their parents did a lousy job at teaching them how to treat their fellow human beings. At this point, you need to respond in the only manner they'll understand; stupid, primitive violence. Maybe things were a little bit vague in THIS instance, but if you actually know who's mistreating you and you've made a bonafide effort to settle the matter peacefully, it's time to rage f*ckin' war! They'll even be all the more off guard when you finally go ape-sh*t on them if you're the nice person you claim to be.
I've been mocked and made fun of a handful of times in my younger years, but with my attitude, I ensured that I never got picked on by the same people TWICE. >:D
2006-08-30 23:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't be a bitchy or feisty person. be who u are, be nice. it'll pay off, those people- what they really are is jealous-they want to be like you, they want to be nice, but they can't. don't fall in the same group as them, be yourself. that's important, if you let someone else decide who you become, then your not yourself. Don't give up!
2006-08-31 00:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by vitamin r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear what u've been thru... I dunno if this'll work for u but try making friends with them... Try asking them 2 put themselves in ur shoes n think wat it wud be like... They r too crude n 'uncivilised' to accept every1 as they are... They aren't WORTH fretting about. But if diplomacy doesnt work, maybe u'll just have to find subtle ways at getting back at them... "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned"
2006-08-30 23:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by Satish N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because those kids are immature and needed some attention
2006-08-30 23:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by DodgerBlueFan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if that happened to me, me n my friends woulda beat that sh*t outta all of them
2006-08-31 01:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just igore
2006-08-30 23:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋