ive been trying for and baby and dont know what to do??

Question

hi people ive been trying for a baby for three years and still have had nothing yet. i mis carried a year ago and ever since then all i want to do is have a baby. it would mean so much to me. so im wondering what the next step is??? because im at my wits end with it. any suggestions would be appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I know EXACTLY how you feel hun, We have just finished having tests to check we are physically ok and we are now in the category of sub fertility which means theres no problems physically but still not pregnant. Its been 2 and a half years now. I am depressed also but have been seeing a counsellor who is fantastic. If you click my little duck you can E Mail me and i will tell you what advice she has given me, it would be nice to talk to others going through the same. I got all choked up reading your Q cos i sympathise with you. xx

Answer 2

Anxiety is the worst approach when trying to concieve.Their a various approahes in the scientific ways,but one thing u must realize doctors can treat but only God Almighty can cure. Go the medical practitioner a gyno to bre precise.They have come up with various fertity procedure and only with the one most suitable for ur body and u financial status can be used to treat u.In all u do commit it To the great Healer to who he pleases he HealsThrough His Son Jesus Christ.
But mind u if u have to under go these procedure u mate must also in his part be properly checked to see if he is also fertile.
If all is done just relax and constantly put ur petition befor eGod and with patience and perseverance u'll be a mother.As in the Book of Maccabee says "what God does not give no one can take".In good time God will give u ur heart desire.Stay blessed and hold on in Faith

Answer 3

Have you actually tried IVF and spoken to your doctor?
If not there are alternative therapys you can try.
Its hard but sometimes when you stress about these things too much it affects your body, and your homrmones and it doesnt happen- this seems to happen quite alot, you need to relax and try not to think about it then it will happen, give yourself a time limit of another year and try different things.
Then if nothing happens you can always adopt( i know thats probably what you dont want to hear- but for some people its the only way of having a family) good luck.

Answer 4

Hi there,

Sometimes TTC can be a long an lonely road - with the very best of husbands sometimes finding it difficult to understand how depressed you can get each month when AF shows up.

I noticed that one of the post said you can email them - I would recommend that you do - try joining a group - www.fertilityfriendsonline.co.uk - offer great support from the very women that are TTC too.

After 3 years of TTC may I ask what method you have been using to ensure that BDing is at the right time. Do you chart you temps? do OV Tests? - if yes then and you are BDing at the right time please go and see your doctor for advice and help.

It is recommended that women that are TTC for longer than a year (and have been Ovulating each month and BDing at the right time) should ask for advice from their GP.

Wishing you the very best of luck TTC

Jo

Answer 5

As said be calm and relaxed first and don't worry. If you and your partner are medically ok. It will happen!

When you ovulate and see a transparent jelly like substance pass out of your vagina this means the egg has been implanted. Have sex with your partner missionary position and keep a pillow under your back to prevent the sperm from falling out.! Hope for the best

Answer 6

If you haven't done so already, you need to make an appointment with your OBGYN and discuss this. There are standard blood tests they can do to check for problems, such as a hormone imbalance or a thyroid problem. If you have been going to an OB for this and they haven't helped determine the problem, then you need to move on to a fertility specialist. The older you get, the less fertile you become, so you need to take action.

Answer 7

get to your doctor and ask about iui teatment. not as invasive as ivf, and it has a better chance of working too. because you've already been pregnant you know you can, you may just need a wee bit of help as i did. 5 years after coming of the pill i had a gorgeous baby boy who is now 4. unfortunately i can't get treatment again to have another, but you have no children so are entitled to the treatment. what have you got to loose? go for it. good luck

Answer 8

dont worry sweetie. if you have done all the findings and your are sure nothing is wrong with you and your partner. relax your mind it will surely come. remember "it is already decleared in the bible (GOD's word) "thou shall be fruitful" and since God is not a man that he should liar, wait upon the Lord I'm sure it will surely come ok.
let me share my testimony with you, i stayed for five (5) year before i could have a baby. I did all necessary test, took different medicine no result. but at the appointed time of GOD i had a baby.

Answer 9

Zoe, to get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 10

Try taking NUTRILITE Lecithin-E as per suggested use: 1 tablet to be taken 1to 2 times daily for 1 to 2 months, this could help you.