2006-08-30 22:48:46 · 21 answers · asked by ladygirl2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sorry. that is a tough situation. the best thing you can do is live your life for your child.
2006-08-30 22:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by q-fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,Maya ur world does not revolve around a man.U need to pull urself together(as tough as it may be) and start by being independent.First step is for looking for a job,if your family can assist by watching over the kid during the day & work yourself up the corporate ladder so that u are financial stable to take care of yourself & the kid.As for your husband,he is not worth the trouble.If he walked out on u now when u need him the most he can always do it again.U will learn to be strong and stand up on your own two feet.Goodluck- Turn a new leaf on your life u have a second chance
2006-08-30 22:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by ANGEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a very hard situation baby, am very sorry that you have to go through this especially now when your emotions are running wild with post-natal!! If I were you I try to contact him first, and see what made him pack his things and go... its not only the mothers you know that suffer from post-natal depression. Maybe he is finding it too difficult to cope with a baby at home!!
If there is no justifiable excuse why he left you and your baby, then just change the locks of your home, go to a lawyer and break all ties with this guy. If you think that he was wrong in leaving you and there is no good excuse, then start divorce proceedings and move on with your life. I know, it is going to be difficult for you, but certain things has to be tackled with grace!
Good luck baby, and if you need anyone to talk to, just IM me!!
2006-08-30 23:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry this has happened to you and your baby. You need as much help and support with yourself and your 8 week old baby.
If possible get relatives and friends to help. Get a hold of state agency for help in supporting your child. Find a lawyer if you want. If you have a church group seek help from them. You need as much support from friends, relatives and groups as you can get. Ask every and anywhere you can get help.
After you have gotten your head some what together and you are okay taking care of your baby start trying to build you life.
I don't know why your husband left. If he really took off for good you need to get a lawyer or state child support services involved.
Keep your head hi and take care of yourself and your baby. You both need each other more than ever.
Let us all know how your doing.
2006-08-30 23:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really awful situation for you. I don't know if this was completely unexpected or if you were having problems but either way it sucks.
All I can say is that friends and family are really important at times like these. I'd let them help and support you so you can keep going and make good choices for you and your baby. I'm on my own with 2 children and its hard for a start, but with support, things will get better. There are also good support groups out there now for single parents.
My heart goes out to you and I send you lots of love. It doesn't seem like it now, but things will get better in time. Hang in there.
2006-08-30 23:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be strong and move on sweety now you have a child that is counting on you to raise him or her there is alot of programs that you could get into to help you out don't give up be strong i was alone at 21 with two kids and I'm still going strong
2006-08-30 22:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take care of you and your baby. Your husband has alot of growing up to do and at this rate, he will learn things the hard way. Let him go, you don't need to raise 2 children with him being the oldest and most rebellious one.
2006-08-31 00:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take whatever clothes and items he didn't take burn that shyt up, change the locks, and move on. Who needs a man that would leave his wife and newborn baby? Don't forget to take all his money out of you alls bank accounts .
2006-08-30 22:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by sexy_n_chicago 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Don't take him back. This is 1 of the lowest things a man can do. It will be hard to handle by yourself' But u can do it. You don't need this kind of shi*.
2006-08-30 23:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOrget this heartless man, if he ever comes back to you for watsoever reasons, please dont go back to him.
He is not worth the pain and trauma u are going thru now. Seek lawyer advise and act fast.
Take care and god bless
2006-08-30 23:11:06 · answer #10 · answered by angelinecja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋