would u get mad if your girlfreind of 7 years rough houses with all of your?

Question

freinds if so why

Answer 1

After 7 years of dating you never noticed that she liked to rough house? If she isn't cheating on you, if she isn't doing anything that you would class as cheating on you - why would you get upset? You should know the person you have been dating for 7 years. If not then you have worse problems then rough housing.

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Answer 2

It would all depend on the people she is rough housing with and the reasons behind it.

If she is wrestling with them and tickling/being tickled by them, it is fine AS LONG AS she makes it clear to them that nothing else will develop between them.

The problem that happens - especially with tickling, is that it can be construed as a form of flirting. The flirting can grow and, before you know it, you create an uncomfortable situation where one or more of his friends have also fallen in love you and this can start arguments, rifts in friendships and justifiable jealousy or insecurity.

The best advice is to minimize your flirting as long as you are in a relationship. If you are feeling that there are things lacking in your current relationship which make you want to flirt or test the waters, you owe it to your bf to have an open and honest talk first to address these issues and give him a chance to adjust if he can (You will need to be willing to compromise, too).

If you already know that your bf is not the man you want to be with, it is best to break it off with him before you flirt with other guys. Once you are separated, his friends are still off limits for at least a year. Otherwise, it will be like stabbing a dagger in his heart as he watches you date his friend and he knows that his friend is getting what he lost.

I hope everything works out well for you and your bf.

Answer 3

I would go mad!! i am a woman and have been in a 11 year relationship and if that was me in that position i would feel that i could not trust her as if that is what she is doing with your friends what would she be doing when she is out at night clubs pubs? etc?
i would be wondering all the time if she has doing the same with complete strangers
and after all that time 7 years is a long time she does not respect you if she did she would not do this to you and if your friends give her any action back you got to ask yourself are they friends?
hope it works out though!!

Answer 4

No. It's in human nature to create problems out of nothing. If you get mad or jealous, you'll wind up pushing her away.

Simply ask her about it, if it bothers you. She may just like to wrestle around sometimes. As long as hands aren't going places and clothes are all still on, its not that big of a deal, I don't think.

To be completely honest, I think you should be more worried about your friends. They're more likely to make a move than she is.

Answer 5

No (assuming type of girl). If I had been dating her for 7 years then I would know her well enough and trust her to know she's just a playful, flirtatious soul. Also if it's not a one friend thing, then I know at least she rough houses with all of them, so it's nothing special for any one (of them).

Answer 6

Not really if she is just playing, but if their was some scheme behind i tlike tryin to get another dude in the sack then I would be. Talk to her about it and tell her how you feel.....if she gets angry then something is up.

Answer 7

No, as long as the "rough housing" is plutonic.

Answer 8

mad? no. jealous, sometimes. my gf likes to tease and mess with my friends but the fact that she always comes back to me tells me alot.

Answer 9

She's become expendable and needs replacement with something fresh and clean.

Answer 10

rough as in talk or have sex ..