some old people tell me that if I find a wife, a job will come by itself?

Question

many old people here think that when I (or somebody else) finds a lady that loves me and marry her, in the same time all kind of merits will come (job, friends, change of life).
They cannot prove this but they say that it always happen. Do you believe in such mistery of life?

Answer 1

Let's analyze it.

1. If you have a wife, you need a job because you need to survive. So, you need to find a job to survive with your wife.
(job did not come by itself)

2. If you have a wife, you have additional connections/networks. They will ask if you have a job and they will give you some job.
(job come by itself) possible!

Conclusion:
Yes, its possible that job will come by itself if you find a wife.

Answer 2

I find that normally old people many times have words of wisdom that seem to make no sense and can not be proved. They are just something that they seem to understand for some reason. It is like a reward for getting old, having a lot of experiences, being observant, and letting the younger generation know that they already did walk the road and are now on the way back so they can give some good advice as to what is ahead.

Do not get me wrong, I am not saying they are never wrong OK. I am not telling you to get a wife and then start looking for a way to support her. ha ha.

I was taught to plant the field first and then build the house. For me that means get to work first, then start construction, and last of all get someone to share the home with you OK. Thus I am saying do not blame me if you get the wife first. That is your decision and your problem OK

That makes three of yours I found. Thanks for the questions OK. Now I can sign off and still have a smile on my face.

Answer 3

Good question & you've got the answer from the old people !
Simply as it can be !

Answer 4

Heck no............No job...no wife......