why do guys lie about checking out chicks?

Question

I catch my bf checking out chicks all the time and when i ask him why he was doing it he lies i dont care that he does it as long as he doesnt do it in front of me i tell him this and its like it goes in one ear and out the other

Answer 1

because he is immature

Answer 2

Girl, alright you don't care if he does it behind your back.. but the fact remains the same!! Will he ever confess to you that he did it ?! Never!! So hiding and telling a lie are the two sides of a coin!! I don't regard telling a lie a major factor here.. it is like a symptom of a disease and that disease is related to the human character.. Perhaps he is just a boyfriend of yours.. not your beloved who truly loves, cares for you and sees you as the most beautiful girl in the world!! This is the sight you can see in todays world almost everywhere.. you will not find true love easily.. people most of time takes physical attraction for love.. True Love means Real Friendship, Unconditional Love, Admiration and Unselfishness!! These are the ingredients of True Love where physical beauty is never involved!!

Answer 3

He thinks that if he tells you that he's not that it won't hurt your feelings. It could be that he's just comparing them to you. Like, if a girl walks by and she has on an outfit that he knows you would totally rock in it and the other girl looks ok in it...some guys are just shy to come out and say what they're really thinking. It comes with maturity. My bf does it all the time. At the same time, so do I. (Check out guys, that is.)

Answer 4

he's 30 years older then you particularly, which possibly makes him older then even your dad and mom i will guess. yet to boot the extensive age distinction and the reality that he lied to you and has persevered to misinform you theres some different issues to look at here. First, what proper to the reality that he did no longer even evaluate your emotions or oppinions proper to the age distinction. Secondly, what approximately letting you discover out from his family members, whats that each and every person approximately? rather impolite in case you inquire from me. yet then to proceed to objective to lie approximately it, that s rather low on his section. What else has he very somewhat no longer instructed you or lied approximately. And the challenge now could be which you comprehend you could no longer ask him something own and have self belief him he's already proved that even confronted with the certainty he can't be truthful with you. is this the form you pick to stay your existence, continuously questioning. have self belief me it somewhat is basically the commencing up. This guy or woman your with is an extremely me me me guy or woman. he should help comprehend what ever he thinks gets him what he needs.. Please think of this dating over difficult and long and definitely with your self until now For some reason i think of you ought to to run a historic past ck on him. it would desire to instruct to be exciting.

Answer 5

If you don't care why is it such an issue for you. I know my answer is that I like the female form. Its the same reason I like paintings of women in museums. I like to try to put a story to the person. A lot of guys are peoplewatchers. Its a way to get a handle on human nature. If you think a guy is going into public with you with blinders on you are way naive. Do you think he is some sort of attachment who is to be led around without observing the surroundings. You need a better handle on human nature.

Answer 6

Most guys do this, even in front of their gfs or wifes. It's disrespectfull & dispickable , not to mention it hurts the feeling, like a stab in the heart. That's why people always say, " Men are dogs & guys will always be guys" !
I tell u what u should do. Tell him , would u like if i do the same , in front of u ? Tell him to respect u or....GOODBYE ! Believe me , if he does this in front of u, he is not worth it, or u will have a life of headache & cheating with this guy.
I used to be like this, but i learned the hard way because i lost the ones i cared about & loved.

Answer 7

Because they think if they deny it enough u'll actually believe it..

The one i love is when theres only a girl in their eyeline.. u KNOW they are looking at her.. and they say "what girl?" as if she was invisible and they could look right through her lol.

Or when ur in the car, and this car drives up besides u and they are checking the girl out thats driving it.. they say" What? i was checking out the car".. and then u ask what color the car was 10 minutes later and they cant remember, but they can remember it was a blonde driving it lol..

Or.. "i wasnt looking "AT" her, i was looking at what she was wearing " then either this follows " i think that outfit would look really cute on u" or " can u believe she would wear something like that"

Or when they rubber neck to look at a girl, then turn and say "what girl?" I thought it was someone i knew but i was mistaken.. (what they can tell if they know them better from the rear view then the frontal view?) lol

I know that all people look, even us women look , but damn we can atleast look at a guy that is in our eyeline as we are walking and we may think for a second, he's cute, but we dont need to make a huge deal out of it, we dont have to make a comment, or oogle them.. I know my man probably flirts and looks when im not around.. (innocently).. heck most people do for just the quick ego gradification.. and im talking the innocent kind not the im trying to get down ur pants or go on a date kind.. but im like u.. It cant hurt me if i dont know about it, but if im on ur arm, u better only have eyes for me.. its just down right rude and disrespectful to be with ur spouse/bf/gf and be looking at , or commenting about someone else in a suggestive/lustful manor..

Answer 8

Heh. Shallow guys do that. Guys will be guys.

If you really want to make an impression, check out chicks with him. It will really throw him off. He won't know if he should play it off or be jealous, and its usually the latter.

Just a "Yup, she's hot." every now and then when he's lookin' should suffice.

It'd be easy for you as a girl to do it. You know what is attractive in a female without having to be homosexual.

Either way, sorry that he lies. Good luck.

Answer 9

Listen it is one thing to look and another thing to stare the clothes off a women.If he glances don't even acknowledge it we all do that whether one admits it or not.But if he stares a hole through awomen in front of you then tell him how that makes you feel.Respect is the main thing,my lady knows I look and would worry about me if I didn't but I love and respect her so I don't disrespect her when we are out.On occasions she will tell me wbout a women I look at and laugh about it with me and that shows me she is really secure about us and that is good.

Answer 10

lol...you need reassurance about your relationship. Guys check out chicks all the time. The about of time that we spend shopping is equivelant to the hours they spend checking out chicks. It s just a one off thing, dont worry, just get him to admit that he is doing...

Answer 11

I cant answer ur question but what I can say to you is that you should be glad he doesnt do it behind ur back unless....he does it in an extremely annoying way then I would agree with you being angry. Its normal for people to check other people... There is nothing you can do, its just the way this person is...