2006-08-30 22:24:14 · 3 answers · asked by breeze 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Anyone attracted to his/her friend of the same sex?
2006-08-30 22:29:53 · update #1
I think many guys are, or at least have some attraction to their friends of the same sex, because humans are sexual beings, and sexual preference is merely a preference, not an either-or mandate. However, I think what happens in most situations, especially with young guys, is that they have guy envy--meaning they have a really hot friend, a friend who gets a lot of girls, they may have a large penis or some other fascinating object of obsession, and guys will flock or follow them around, often simulating a "groupie" relationship. More than being sexually attracxted to this friend, they may wish to become that friend--it's hard to tell the difference. I know that the majority of guys have had a same sex experience, whether it be mutual masturbation or something more. That doesn't mean they are gay, obviously, because 90% or more of men are straight. And aside from these confused thoughts, insecurities, happenchance attractions, experimenting, and envious feelings, there is little chance for it to grow into a full-fledged homosexual relationship, because that's just not how nature works.
2006-08-30 22:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because just like straight people don't find everyone of the opposite sex attractive, gay people don't find everyone of the same sex attractive.
2016-03-27 02:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no never.
2006-08-30 22:37:27 · answer #3 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋