Sometimes to omitt the truth can save a relationship.
2006-08-30 21:53:15 · 11 answers · asked by hoarfen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some times its not bad to tell what they call it , a little whit lie but lying about something that you know in your heart should be truthful will ruin a relationship faster than you know. Its to me better to tell the truth and show that you really care than to lie, even if it still doesn't work out you know in your heart that you did the right thing and that the releationship was not ment to be.
2006-08-30 22:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by baby gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my life ive found that all lies come out eventually.. it may take weeks, months or even years but eventually all lies rear their ugly little heads.. so although omitting the truth can save pain momentarily.. in the long run it will actually destroy it even worse, because if its a huge lie, the other person feels like a fool, for not knowing all that time.. along with being lied to.. if ur in a relationship it is best not to have any secrets from your spouse, to always be on the up and up even if it hurts feelings.. but u should always go out of your way never to do anything that could put ur relationship at risk in the first place to have to feel u have to omitt the truth.. so if u did that to begin with , u would have to worry about hidding anything ..
2006-08-30 21:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As the wife of a man who seems to think it's better to lie than engage in a confrontation, I can unequivocally answer ASOLUTELY!! The lies are almost always found out and usually by his own slips.
Tell the truth and live with the consequences...I find people usually lie when they have something to hide. Since you'll be found out sooner or letter, live up to it from the start. It's total crap to put someone you love through that bull. It's causing horrendous problems in my relationship....NOT saving it!!!!!!
2006-08-31 06:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you do not love or have self assurance your better half adequate to be straightforward about your previous, your targets for the destiny or what you anticipate out of your modern existence, then the relationship is a lie. have you ever considered a t.v. instruct the position the guy has lost a job, and receives up , receives dressed and looks to bypass to paintings. what's that?? i ought to desire my different 1/2 ought to enable me recognize that he lost a job so as that i'd be there for moral help. mendacity about important issues that ought to replace your existence is an insult to the different man or woman in touch. i'm not one to assert I actual have not advised the occasional white lie, like how a lot I lost at Bingo or how a lot I paid for that handbag I in basic terms had to have, yet when it extremely did not harm the different emotionally or financially, the occasional little bending of the reality can actual be forgiven in my e book. and women, do not tell me you haven't performed that lol. i recognize my hubby fibs even as he tells me how vast the fish changed into that he stuck, humorous those vast ones in no way make it domicile!
2016-11-23 15:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a question you have to find for yourself as well if you happen to get caught.. Sometimes even the whitest lie can be put out into the open.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-08-30 21:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you walk a straight Line in Life then Honesty is the Best Policy. But most people don't. In that case no its not. You can lose everything you have accomplished. You decide if you are walking that straight line. Good Luck. Thanks for asking. Aloha from Hawaii
2006-08-30 22:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is without fail the best policy coz it earns you the TRUST of other people and their respect. It also makes u to be confident in all things.
2006-08-30 22:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO!!!! What one does not know will not hurt!!
Omitting the truth is a very good way to save someone some pain but it won't save a relationship.
2006-08-30 22:02:09 · answer #8 · answered by mburkeslaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy. There is such a thing as being brutally honest- that is when you are honest with a person just to hurt them. If it comes to that, just keep your mouth shut.
2006-08-30 21:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put it this way, by telling the truth you don't have to worry about hiding things, and you will never get caught out unexpectedly
2006-08-30 21:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋