2006-08-30 21:52:33 · 11 answers · asked by roxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No because you should always be yourself in a marriage or any type of relationship. No one can change you or any other person.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-08-30 22:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Sorry. You can only hide your true self for so long. Like I told my ex, you cant stable a wild horse. If someone loves you they would want you to be who you are. You cant "create" the perfect mate. Be yourself. DOnt change for anyone. Except for bad, harmful habits of course.
2006-08-30 21:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by rwdycwgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage will fail eventually because you will develop resentments towards the other person for suppressing you. You should always be who you are and if your partner truly loves you , they will accept you as you are. No one should change you but yourself.
2006-08-30 22:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it wont last. You and your spouse have to be who the both of you truely are. Marriage takes work it is not easy. You can't be how someone wants you to be.
2006-08-30 23:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by JAYNE C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. And why would anyone even want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't love them for who they are?
2006-08-30 21:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Hillaryforpresident 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not let anyone try and make you different. Be yourself. Your parntner knew what you were like before you married and by marrying accepted you like that.
2006-08-30 21:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not very long. and the longer its drawn out the more potentially violent it can become due to repressed resentments
2006-08-30 22:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because true love will accept you as you are and not how they want you to be.
2006-08-30 21:56:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not sure just what this is leading to.... but if you are not you, and they think you are somthing or someone else.... the real you will come out eventualy...... so be you and let them work out their own problems.......... *sigh*, hope that makes sense....... God bless
2006-08-30 21:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately not. If you are not excepted for who you are, you can not be happy. Maybe they will be happy, but not you.
2006-08-30 21:58:13 · answer #10 · answered by GunRunner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋