my bestfriend has this boyfriend and she's been going out with him for 10 months and im with them everyday and when i see them together i feel jealus because i want him ...and if i try and do anything she'll beat the crap out of me and never talk to me again is it wrong that i like him??
2006-08-30 21:50:17 · 10 answers · asked by jenicka_hottie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you sure it's him you like or are you just envious of their relationship? Being the "3rd" in a group can be difficult and lead to you trying to find ways in which to become as close to them as they are to each other. Something to think about.
On the other hand, you can't always control your feelings BUT you can control your reactions. I think you already know the answer to your question. Are you asking for permission to go for him? If your roles were reversed how would you feel if your best friend moved in on your guy?
Just remember, guys will come and go in your life, friends are usually friends forever.
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2016-12-14 15:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there in a word no there is nothing wrong in liking him ,but if you step over that line you are in real risk of not just getting the crap kicked out of you ,but also losing there friendship for ever ,and how is to say that he is interested in you ,dont mean to sound cruel here but ,how would you feel if he said that he wasnt interested in you , and taking that type of risk ,you will find a nice guy soon and have someone to cuddle ,dont try and take youre friends ,how about you and youre mate have a girls night together and just have a chat and laugh and leave them to be together ,and youre boy friend will turn up soon ....i promise ..take care xx
2006-08-30 21:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try to fight those feelings... If you care about them then you should maybe find some distance until the those feelings subside a bit. ... you shouldnt stop hanging with them, but maybe a little bit of distance once in awhile would be healthy!
Maybe you should try to meet someone for yourself, or make some more friends so that you arnt spending as much time with the same two. sometimes spending too much time with someone you can develop feelings that might not be healthy for you .
2006-08-30 21:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by minx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dah!!! You even have to ask this?
What is wrong with you gurl?
Leave him alone!!!! Besides,if he wanted you,
he'd be with you!!!! You insult this guy too,not
just your best friend,and by they way,you are
not a best friend or even a friend while you
think this way!!!!! You insult this guy just by
assuming he'd go for you if you tried to go
after him,now thats really trashy on top of
things!!!! Grow up and get your own life and
maybe you'll be happy too?
2006-08-30 22:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by slappingfox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is nothing wrong in liking or loving some one . This is the thing that is beyond our control . But the thing that we can do abt it is the thing that is in our control . To be jealous is OK . Not to tell your feeling is WRONG . To love is OK .To demand and expect Love in return is WRONG . To sacrifice your friendship just to tell some one you love then is OK but to be afraid of a friend (being beaten up ) for telling the truth is WRONG . It is all abt doing things which are in your control .
2006-08-30 22:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by s_k_latif 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong to like him but wanting and making ways for him to break up with your friend so that he may be yours is wrong....be happy for them and look someone for you....there are better guys just around the corner....Goodluck!!!
2006-08-30 22:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting him isn't wrong. Plotting to get him is. I suggest you find somebody else to occupy your obsession - fast. Some friend.
2006-08-30 21:55:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong to like him, but if you had any respect for your friend, you'd be pleased for her in her relationship.
2006-08-30 22:11:47 · answer #9 · answered by Say It Like You Mean It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong to like him.but dont put any moves on him.
2006-08-30 22:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋