my guy has a really high level of endurance. we have had a few sexual sessions, but he doesnt c.um at all each time (regardless of how i masturbate or oral him). he has told me that it takes him about 20-30mins to c.um when he masturbates himself, and i have seen him at it for 30mins!
there was also an occasion when i oral him & he peed in my mouth! and since then, i cant help but gag when i oral him.
and advices on how & what i can do to make him c.um? and also to counter my gagging reflexes?
2006-08-30 20:42:15 · 9 answers · asked by glynizzzz 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
and i would like to know, why would he pee in my mouth while im oralling him? he peed before we get into things, by the way.
does this peeing sensation happen to any guys out there?
2006-08-30 20:53:23 · update #1
Hi there,
First of all, some guys just take longer to reach their peak. I am such a guy, however my wife knows me pretty well (I would hope so) and therefore knows a few tricks that will make me "get there" faster.... Not that she minds the "marathon"-length sessions mind you! But it can be a drag sometimes to just keep going and going without much of sensory variation.
Many of the suggestions posted above appear to be good ones and maybe you should try a few of them, just to see if something makes him "kick in" faster.
There are also a couple other possibilities which aren't common but do happen.
1) We will NOT allow himself to reach orgasm. My wife calls this the "mission" factor; he may have programmed himself so much in the past to not climax prematurely that now he has no control over it and it just takes him that long to reach him own peak.
2) He may not be 100% comfortable, not necessarly just with you, but maybe just with himself and intimacy in general. He will be able to perform but there will also be the unability to fully "let himself go", which would explain why it is so difficult for him to reach orgasm before an elongated peroid of time.
The "P" in the mouth: Accidents do happen, although I know for a fact that trying to urinate while having an erection is extremelly difficult and can be very painful, with side effects as well. Then again, someone mentioned that maybe he thought he was going to climax but it was just a need to releive himself. Like I said, sometimes accidents happen. And of course there's also a possibility that he could have done it on purpose; he may have a thing for "P"-ing on his partner but can't share that thought fo fear of being harshly judged.
Youe gagging reflex: It's a normal reaction after what has happened to you. The only thing I can think of is to ask you to relax... Just don't worry about it, and don't think about it if you give him fellati*. If your mind is focused on the past's "P" experience, your body will react by "instinct" (hence the gag). If you can somehow block that image and try to concentrate on something else except that experience, your throat and gag reflex will return to normal.
And to put in my own 2 cents worth, I imagine you really must love him to put up with some of these things. I know alot of women who wouldn't tolerate so much out of their man!
Cheers!
2006-08-31 00:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure how tall you're or how heavy you look, yet while i bypass to tell a woman that she's somewhat or has a somewhat face, then yeah i'm probable flirting along with her. yet once you're fairly curious, next time a guy says you're somewhat, try sending some solid vibes back and notice how he responds. And next time you notice him, say hi and supply him a compliment. adult males like it while they obtain compliments from women.
2016-11-06 03:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LMAO. If I peed in my fiance's mouth she would bite it off? You've got to be kidding. Is he gay or something; or maybe even on drugs? Very strange. this guy sounds very weird.
I've heard of crystal meth guys doing it for long periods of time.
2006-08-30 21:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can said that he got no feeling towards you and please stop having sex with him. Because a full erection of a man, this should not happen (Peed in your mouth). Hopefully your meaning of "peed" is urination. For your info.
2006-08-30 21:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, what turns him on. Try dirly naughty stuff constantly. Say you like this and that to him so he visualises it. Watch a x rated flick with him. Use a vibrator on his tip. If all fails, hand him to me. LOL
2006-08-30 20:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Junia Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try suggesting that he refrains fro any form of sexual activity for a couple of weeks - he'll be glad to *** then!
2006-08-30 20:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is just nasty. You need to get away from him. Also, crystal meth will cause him to not be able to ejaculate for long periods of sex.
2006-08-30 20:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he pee'ed since he wasnt sure what was gonna 'come' lol
2006-08-30 20:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by sree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be gay or on heroin. when people ar on heroinb they don't ***. i'm not trying to be rude(just so you know).
2006-08-30 20:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋