Ok Well I dOnt Know TO Believe this guy or not anymore! I've been with him for almost 3 years and he has cheated on me countless times...but when i broke up wit him he always comes crying bak to me that he loves me and that he cant live without me.....but it seems like everytime we break up he goes and messes around with other girls...in other words (sex) and than after a week calls me! and we get back and he treats me like a princess for a week and than goes bak to his old self ...mean , rude, asshole...and when he wants acts like a sweetheart...i dont know if he really loves me or not? OR he is simply a man hore?! who loves me but like to sleep with other girls....OR maybe cause he is younger than me he doesnt know much about life?.... I need your help.?!
2006-08-30 19:27:53 · 21 answers · asked by linda04 1 in News & Events ➔ Current Events
Yeah he's a man wh*re. And if he really loved you he would respect you and not treat you like that. It has nothing to do with age, and as long as you keep taking his sh*t, he'll know he can get away with it.
2006-08-30 19:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a saying:
"A leopard never changes it's spots."
The crying and stuff he does is all B.S., no matter how convincing he seems to be to you, DON'T BELIEVE HIM! If you get stuck too long, then you may just be stuck forever, cursing each day as you wake up and see his face.
There is nothing "simple" about a man w*ore. Trust me. When you get your first case of STD and have to be treated, it's an experience you wont soon forget. It is NOT simple. Now I'm hearing some STD's may be causing certain types of cancer.THAT IS NOT SIMPLE! THAT IS SERIOUS, and the pain is serious as well!
If he really loves you, he wouldn't do it. I don't care what he SAYS:
"ACTIONS speak LOUDER than words!"
I'm sorry to sound so serious and cold, but I'm just trying to save you a lot of pain - both emotional and physical. After several years down the road you may look back and really curse yourself for wasting your life.
2006-08-31 02:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by SweetPea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry hun but dump this loser!!! basically if he loved you REALLY loved you he wouldnt do these things!! He's going by the old saying Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free??? he uses you as a saftey net, he goes out & gets what he wants from other women & then falls back on you because he knows youll take him back and all he has to do is be nice for a week or so & he gets all the benefits of having a good girlfriend w none of the responsibility or hassell....hes an *** & you deserve better! WAY BETTER!!!
2006-08-31 02:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by *♥* ♥* FaeGoddess*♥*♥* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, let go. You deserve much better than this. This is an abusive relationship and age is not an excuse.
I know it's hard in the beginning and he will cry, beg and do whatever is needed to get you back because somehow you are his "possession", but you have to be strong.
I know you can let go, I have had a similar experience and letting go was the hardest thing to do, but not impossible and I succeeded and so can you.
No I have carried on with my life and whenever he contacted me, which he did every once in a while after he had his "flings", I refused to be dragged back into this unhealthy, abusive relationship.
In any relationship, respect ,appreciation and trust are more important than love.
It won't be easy, but as I said, it is not impossible.
If you need any moral support, please contact me and I will do my best to be there for you.
2006-08-31 03:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by nevine99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like he's using you because he knows whatever he does, you are gonna take him back. If he really loves you, he wouldn't be messing around with other girls or abusing you (which is what he is doing, both mentally and verbally). Real love is caring about the other person more than yourself and he sure isn't acting that one. Why do you keep going back to him? I'm sure that there are plenty of guys out there who would give you the respect and love you deserve.
2006-08-31 02:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Liadan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. If he did then he wouldn't cheat on you. If you love someone you could never hurt them like he's done you. You need to break it off for good and not fall for his fake tears when he comes back crying. I was in a manipulative relationship like this for almost 5 years and it finally got to a point to where I was fed up with it and couldn't go back. I hope that this helps. Good luck and please don't let him treat you like that, you're worth so much more.
2006-08-31 02:38:41 · answer #6 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O M G I just posted the very samething!! I caught my BF right after the ugly deed in fact they were still naked in his bed!!! I hate him I have been w/him for 2 yrs and it wasn't long (Weeks In) before I caught him I continued finding him locked in his room and when the door finanly was opend (10 - 15 Minutes later) I found another low life whore in his room....this has continued..I have kicked doors in...Beat his ***..The whores ***'s and I leave the chump....Only to go back because like your BF he can't live w/out me..He loves me, Blah...Blah...Blah....Well my friend...We ask for it if we were strong enough we would probably be gone..No one in the right mind would be treated with no respect..but we have to respect ourselves first or no one will....Lets pray for eachother...to change God knows they wont!!!! I really UNDERSTAND your situation...You sound young not as old as I am I bet but you'll pulll thru I'll pray for you tonight!
2006-08-31 02:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he does likes you in some way but he will never change, you have two choices take him as he is or find another guy who will treat you as you deserve, I know is hard when you love something but this kind of guy cant never make you happy
2006-08-31 04:26:29 · answer #8 · answered by Callisto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, my sister went through that exact same thing. but she cut him out of her life finally. he tries to ease back in sometimes, but she simply blows him off - no chance. do the same. will you be happy once you contract herpes or some other dreadful STD? quit while you are ahead. a man who loves you would stay and work it out. and if he did leave, he wouldn't move on to other females that fast. leave him alone, he's worthless garbage.
2006-08-31 02:33:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should really break up with him now.He of course doesn't truly loves you!If he did,why did he mess around with other girls?Just break up with him and ignore him when he comes back crying.If you cann't do so,let him gave you a proper explanation why did he went out to mess with other girls.
2006-08-31 02:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by PrIsCiLiA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋