im a17 year old girl,everyone think im nice,they abuse me,but i cant say anything,im so sick and tierd of it,it hurts me so much,i cry most of the times,and it bothers my bf,how can i stop it?i need help,please...
2006-08-30 19:23:33 · 3 answers · asked by when_angels_deserve_to_die_999 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you'll get tuff or die
2006-08-30 19:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by HEY boo boo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it hard to said no sometime. being nice to others and they abuse it. suck uh. i had let my close friends use me a lots of time, then they get used to it. and this started to bother me and somehow im get sick of it and got mad so suddenly that they know why but it seem like they got use to it and can't stop to using me, or they just doesn't care. god. 4 once i eventhought "i'm glad that i'm useful, and not useless to them,can help them out in someway ' or telling myself "we're good friends, no big deal" but now i think i'm such an idiot all these time.now the best advice i can give myself or you is to learn not to care to those who doesn't deserve it. if you being nice, learn to let yourself didn't care to those who abuse it.
2006-08-30 20:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously ...ur jus like me honey.. n m 21 now. stil i can never talk back wen someone says anythin rude to me.. but in todays world u gotta toughen up.. ther are a few tricks to learn n hey.. u need a friend a mature person who has seen the world.. he/she should be able to tel u wat to do.. good luck
2006-08-30 19:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋