Don't be a retard and say "if you don't like him why is he ur friend"..
2006-08-30 19:12:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Three simple words. I am Gay.
2006-08-30 19:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be Clear n Tell That Person That You Dont Like Him Any More Wel Even I Have A Friend Whom I Hate Like Anything n Then I Also Said This To Her Bt Then I Realised That Who Is Gonna Help M eOut With The Tution Classes I Had Missed So I Pretended As If It Was A Bet.........
So I Advice You Continue To Stay With Him Bt Dont Get Too Close Just Like I Do n Onl;y Call Him When You Have A Problem Or You Need His Help Or Else Jus Say Hi! N Stay Wit Him Only When Ur Other Friends Are Around/There Too! Hope This Helps You!
All The BEST.....I Understant How You Feel...........!!!
2006-08-31 02:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by tweetie_pie_ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....don't avoid him and give him the silent treatment b/c that will lead to confusion. Tell him clearly that he is a really good friend but you just don't have anything in common anymore and that he would have a better time with other people. You just need some space to reach out and meet new people.(sorry I know it kind of sounds like a break up.) B/c if you keep on making excuses it will make him even more determined to ask even more and lying will make you feel worse. So just be truthful and if he is really your friend he will understand.! =)
good luck!
2006-08-31 02:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by |katt| 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely don't let the friendship slip away, if the person is any better than a person who would try to do that then he would try to continue the friendship by taking the initative. Let him know the problem. Trust me. It's more painful for a "friend" to make subtle hints that he doesn't like you then for him to tell you straight out. It lessens the humiliation, something that person will respect.
2006-08-31 02:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by finleydoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he is your friend then instead of thinking about yourself and trying to just "end your friendship" why not try thinking about your friend and giving him some advice about how he could become a better person?
That is assuming of course that he needs improvement. If you just don't like him because you don't like him... Then I hate to say it, since you said you didn't want to hear it, but "You really aren't a friend to him, now are you?"
2006-08-31 02:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well me and friend do this all the time so we just tell each other that we need to talk a break but then after a while just tell him u dont think you to can b friends anymore but first really think about it good luck
2006-08-31 02:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by kieras_411 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before the answer can come you have to ask yourself:
How close are you? just friends? long time friends? b g friends? or dating friends?
If you can answer it. Good cos you will know how to tell him or her about it.
If it's just friends... Just ignore or just tell him or her that you are "JUST FREINDS". Long time friends... Just talk things over if you can about what made you want to stay away and not be friends. B G freinds... well, why start it if you have not known each other enough to hang on to the relationship? Dating friends... that's easy, inform him or her that he or she is not wat you are looking for in a partner...
No need to stress yourself out. I have been thru it and that's the best i can help...
Take care and cheers...
2006-08-31 02:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by MC Helper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth do u ned to tell anyone u don't like him/her? why bring pain? just try to avoid this person, if the person invites u somewhere say u re busy. say u have a lot to do at work/study. but why make anybody sad by saying this anybody is not good for u?
2006-08-31 02:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't make plans or talk to them for a while be busy he'll get the message
2006-08-31 02:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by buffywalnuts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but y u dont like him if u have d reason den tell dat reason 2 him right away.
2006-08-31 02:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by shravani 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to tell him why you have something against him, be honest, it's lame to hate someone and not tell them why. Don't be rude about it.
2006-08-31 02:16:25 · answer #11 · answered by reff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋