spouse? im just curious/ what you think
2006-08-30 19:09:10 · 17 answers · asked by darkangel1111 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it can only bring trouble,and won't last!!!
2006-08-30 19:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by ladyb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to believe if u really love someone being with someone else would never cross ur mind, but now I see, it's not always like that... I don't care what anyone says married or in a relationship, everyone looks, ur always see someone that u may become attracted to, some people may not take it anywhere, and actually do anything about it, but it crosses the mind at least once or twice through the marriage or relationship, i also believe u can like someone else while being in love and faithful, like a co-worker ur around everyday, u can't help it if u start to like someone or are attracted to them, u can control it or give in to temptation, some people that do love each other very much, and want to spend their lifes together, and never separate, may be perfect on every level except in the bed room, maybe not enough excitement, or something, and to keep their marriage if all else fails i believe it's okay to have different partners, as long as it's what they both want i don't think thats cheating... I have been cheated on, not that I except being cheated on, but it would hurt me more if my husband was giving another girl affection as far as taking another girl out, telling her he loves her, spending money on her, having meaningful conversations, that would hurt me more than him just having sex with another girl and it be meaningless....
2006-08-31 02:42:09 · answer #2 · answered by mia24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
satans playground thats what it is. im no religious freak, but to me it sounds like sodom and gamorrah (spelling i know dont say it). marriage is sacred and should be entered into with the most care and gentleness. you should have no thoughts of other ppl, or want to be with someone else, because you married one man, or one woman, and thats what marriage is ONE person. you vowed to be with that person for the rest of your life, no matter what happens, and an open marriage is out of the question. its so bogus, and absolutely apalling to me. there is no reason to be married if thats the type of lifestyle that you want, because it depletes the whole purpose of being married...marriage is only one person. under NO circumstances is it okay to be with someone else, even if you both are okay with it. if thats what you want, then you really dont love eachother, and theres no reason to stay together. you cant have your cake and eat it too. if you want to have sex with every tom dick and jane, then you made the real mistake on your wedding day...because it was fake. so hopefully you will realize that it is nothing but trouble, and there is no reason, or anything that can make it okay. it is just absurd to me, and i think its a real shame that ppl do these things, and take marriage so lightly. marriage is not something that you can take with a grain of salt, its serious, and its a life long commitment...ppl nowadays need to realize that.
2006-08-31 04:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's just plain sick you know you get married for a reason to be committed to eachother and only be with that person how can anyone think that way!?? Have sex with other people when married??!?! No that's just bullcrap looks like if people are married wanting sex with other people they shouldn't had got married in the first place you need to quit acting like a whore
2006-08-31 02:31:00 · answer #4 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband and I have talked alot about this and have seriously considered it, but I think that once you do something outside your marriage, it cheapens what you share together somehow. One of the cool things about being married is that you grow together and share such a deep emotional bond and I don' t think that one could do that if there were other parties sharing the sexual side of the marriage. It stops people from going that far emotionally, I think.
2006-08-31 02:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by joandi_99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never really understood why someone would want to do that. If you do not intend on being monogamous then what is the point of getting married? Someone who still wants to sleep with other people obviously is not ready to settle down with one person. So it dosen't appear that they are ready for marriage.
2006-08-31 06:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother to get married if you want to be a whore. Marriage is between two people and not between 2plus. It will not work. Don't screw up each others lives if you are not done fooling around. Marrage is NOT for you at this time.
2006-08-31 02:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a marrige if you screw around with other people. If you are not married yet, don't get married with ideas like that in mind.
2006-08-31 02:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if that what you want why marry? Open marriges do not work only trouble.
2006-08-31 02:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by sher7us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this don't sound like much of a marriage if you love each i wouldn't let someone play with my toys
2006-08-31 02:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by bill h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think humans can live with that , thats sick and not what marriage is all about .
2006-08-31 02:27:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋