Any tips on finding a soul mate?
2006-08-30 18:21:54 · 27 answers · asked by LifeisGoood 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Yes I have. But I wasn't consciously looking. First, get yourself to a place of balance and peace. WHATEVER IT TAKES!!! Then open your eyes. When its right, if its meant to be this time around, you'll recognize him / her when you look into their eyes. You'll feel like you've finally come home. It will be immediate, and no doubt in your mind. Good luck.
2006-09-01 07:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... I love my boyfriend SO MUCH, but I'm not sure that I believe in soulmates per se. We love each other, have things in common, and enjoy spending time together, but we still have to work on our relationship like every other couple. The idea of "soulmates" in my opinion isn't very realistic because it seems to me like something from a romance novel or a fairy tale. People are never "perfect" together, but at least they can get pretty close to perfection!
As far as tips for finding a soul mate: be yourself. (Cliche, I know)
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2006-08-31 01:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by LLLphotogrphr 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes i have.Its depends on what you perceive the person to be.I met mine in sad circumstances where we had both lost a close friend,so it took time but finally we fell for each other.
The relationship has not been smooth as you might think but what has worked for us is trust,honesty and always being there for each other.
He is my soulmate cause i know even if maybe things don't work out,he'll always be my one and only true love and no other guy will take his place.
so we just met,it wasn't something i had planned for or was looking for either but when it happened...i took a chance!
2006-08-31 02:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by kart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I haven't found mine yet....My thoughts are that if you aren't presentable as a person (or attractive, comely, etc), you might as well acquiesce to living alone for the rest of your life. It sucks, but one has to face that possibility. I don't necessarily believe that there's someone for everyone. I believe that certain types of people are found to be attractive, while other types aren't. You can say it's the weeding out of the gene pool. I don't consider it too much of a loss, though. I'm not very impressed with the women I've met so far....Have a nice day.
2006-08-31 02:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was sitting at a table in a 24/7 diner, surrounded by his neo-revolutionary friends - discussing plans for World Domination and effectively taking over the State.
Each person at the table was an expert his some field - his was mathmatics and computers. A HACKER - sitting and working on theoretical computations on a piece of graph paper while chain smoking and wearing combat boots and a nice suit.
Caught my eye immediately.
As a future World Controller (I specialize in Psychology and Social Enginnering) I realised his potential to be of service in my diabolical plans.
I approached him and his crew, and offered my services and skills. He didn't look up. Good sign. That means he's focused on his work.
I sent in my best friend as the "flirt" to scope him out as a potential "mate" - she was on assignment with him for eight years, and at the end of her tenure - I moved in for the kill.
I began showing up at his apartment on Tuesday nights, and taking him out for coffee under the guise of "plotting the downfall of Western Civilization" and discussing such matters in small 24 hour diners.
Eventually, we decided to team up against the world and are currently working on our plans for a Doomsday Device and our own little coffee shop.
Do soul mates exist? Yes.
Be focused on who you are, what you want, and know how to find someone with a similar perspective on life and compatable goals.
Work together, be dilligent.
Maybe we'll see you at the UN one day.
2006-08-31 14:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by pyrrhic_victories 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
i was wishing for a love and found myself listing off all the qualities i wanted in a deep relationship.
a couple months later we met outside of a club. i was in a really good mood that night and dancing with everyone. after the night ended, i found him staring at me so i went to say hi. we have been together for 4 years. the longest relationship i have had yet. we are very compatible, and still very much in love. we have our challenges but all healthy growing relationships do.
find your happiness with in yourself first. then make your wish and send it with your love and contented feelings. continue to go about your usual days without focusing on it, let yourself do what you are inspired to do, and let the moment arise on it's own.
2006-08-31 01:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by curious1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe I have - just recently through our love of drumming. However, I don't know what will happen. I may just have a really good friend. That would be OK too.
I don't think you can really do anything but be yourself, be open share your life with others, and look for a friend, not a lover.
2006-08-31 01:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I have found him.....I decided after my last relationship ended, to be alone for a few years....then I went to work for a new company and saw him...we exchanged pleasantries every so often...then one day I just hollered across the way to him as he went by.."you're single, I'm single, Friday night is date night and I'm off. Why don't you take me out and we won't be single anymore" well, it ended up that he got a sprained ankle, so our first date was me taking him to the emergency room....we've been together ever since!
as for tips, I have to say that there really aren't any for finding Mr. / Mrs. Right.....when it happens, you'll both know and it will be beautiful....but until you find "the one" go out and mingle, have fun....it'll happen!
2006-08-31 01:39:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Callie ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good man who loves you even when times aren't perfect.
I found many who I thought were soulmates. My hubby is about perfect for me though so I guess he is it, I dunno.
Maybe no such thing or maybe you don't always end up with your soulmate.
2006-08-31 01:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mama R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we walked in the doorway of a building and sort of instantly recognized each other as something but weren't sure exactly what we were. As time went on we dated and then one day he told me 'you are my soul mate' and I said' I know'
2006-08-31 01:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by kar_summers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋